You might want to read the first post for some background. If you're too lazy to read: First date went just ok, no K-close. Tried to ask her to come to watch a movie with some friends (4 days after date) but said she was busy. Asked her when she wasnt with no answer, called 2 days later to say hi and set another date with no answer.

So here it goes guys. (Again it's detailed)

Went over to the coffee shop this Tuesday and ask for my "Coffee of the Day" and she points out that she saw my call but had no credit (prepaid phone) to call me back. For some reason there were a couple of bucks in the counter (who the hell knows where they came from) and tell her to get some credit, to which she cracks up... she starts attending more customers while still talking with me... after a couple of customers she says "You have time... don't you?" and I say "I don't... I need to get back to work... where's my coffee =)" she laughs... hands me the cup and I say: "Whenever you miss me just text me wink" and just leave.

On Thursday I text her

  • "Hey awful. Just to check if you have credit haha. And to ask you out this saturday"
  • "Silly... one that is poor... but today I do have credit... and where are you asking me out?"
  • "You'll see... don't be so eager"
  • "So misterious haha. Ok... you should know I'm available starting 4pm"
  • "Very well... but most important is.. At what you have to be back home?"
  • "Mmm... it depends on where we're going... Second of all I have to open the shop on Sunday" (6 or 7am I think)
  • "It depends on how much you want to sleep then :)"
  • "Well... the sleeping beauty and I have some things in common... does that give you an idea? Are you revealing the big mistery now?"
  • "I don't think you'll sleep for 100 years, maybe and just maybe the prince's kiss xD. More details tomorrow ;)"

Friday

  • "Hey you... Details for tomorrow. Jeans and socks... pick you up around 4"
  • "haha what? Those are not details. Where are we going and why do you specify socks?" I call her and we chat a little bit but don't tell her any details... just that it's up to her to wear socks... if she doesn't want to then she might regret it.

Saturday (the day has come)

I get the following at 3pm "Hey you... I'm not home yet. See you at 5 or does it mess up with the plan?"

By this time I think to myself... WTF!!! then thought more thoroughly and came to the conclusion that she does indeed want to come but something came up... then thought again and I was almost positive it was a shit test. So I took a bit of the 2 conclusions and text her "5.30... That way I can finish what I'm doing"

Test passed... she texts back "ok ok... 5.30 it is... What are you doing?"

I wasn't doing anything... but I did have some work to do so I just got my hands on the job and after a while I answer "I'm 2 thumb fights from winning world peace"

So here I am, 5.30 at her place and her sister opens the door... "Hi... are you coming for <funny family nickname>?" I don't know her by that name but I guess so :)... asked me to come in and offered flavored water... I tell her that natural water is ok... no ice (for some reason I believe "refusing" the option and ask for my own makes me look like a boss! and that puts me in a higher position in the eyes of her family... the best think is I didn't even thinkg about it... I just said what I wanted without hesitating). The girl comes down and says goodbye and her sister says "You wait... he's having his water"

I don't see the socks worn and ask her about them... she's got them on her purse... "Ok... bring a jacket too"... no questions asked and she goes up to get a jacket (again like a boss!) She keeps on asking where we're going and I just tell her that she'll realize once we get close to the place... Took her ice skating (awesome place for a frist/second date...). We hadn't skated in years (at least 10 for me) so we were having fun and just telling each other how funny would be to see the other biting the ice. I didn't realize I wasn't all that bad at skating and well... she was a little clumpsy at first but got a grip... so... she kept holding my hand as to not fall down and kept hugging me... I was pull/pushing the whole time... letting her along and coming back later to hold her and stuff... when she falls butt first and I crack up... apparently it hurt like shit... hahahaha so I asked her if she was ok and wanted to go the side of the ice rink... she was hurting bad actually hahahah so I just say "does it hurt bad?" she says yes and I kiss her... pulled back and she was smiling... "does it still hurt?"... knowing what it meant she said "yes :)"... so I kissed her again... time's up and I say Me:"I'm hungry..." Her:"me too" Me:"do you have anything in mind?" her:"nope" Me:"ok" (you only ask once... never twice)...

Second mini-date of the day starting

We went to a restaurant/bar that was closed hahaha... so we headed to an Italian restaurant a block away... didn't wait for the hostess and just I let ourselves in and took a table... waiter comes with the menus and I ask her what she's having... I prefer asking the waiter for what the girl's having... so the guy brings the drinks and then we check the menu for food...

By this time we were very comfortable almost as if we were friends/couple forever... which

helps a lot with the preassure. The kissing was still on in the restaurant... and she kept taking pictures of us... The shit tests never stop BTW!!! but I believe I dodged them all... One time she says about some request that I "confronted" her about "Because I say so and want to" to which I responde with a huge smile "You're so cute"

The food arrives and soon after she finishes her drink and I ask her if she wants another one. She says red wine... but you can't just ask for red wine when the place has a lot of brands... so I tell her... "I don't know a shit about red wines... so let's just ask for Merlot"... I call the waiter and ask for said Merlot and Oh! surprise! the guy asks me which kind... I just tell him with a smile in the face "Merlot man... help me out here" (noting that I didn't know a shit) so he gets the hint and she and I laughed about it "How stupid would I have looked if I had told you I was the shit in wine tasting hahaha"... she cracked up... (lesson guys: Don't act what you can't proof).

We finished our dinner and headed back to her house... had a great time on the ride back and this time we were holding hands but she was playing with my hand... not like the last time...

Arrived at her place and the gate is closed... so she texts her sister to open but didn't answer... a minute later her dad calls with "where are you?" "I'm outside... texted <sister> to open the gate..." "well she's not here... I'm coming to open it" (I have had the perfect timing these 2 dates in order to have her home at the exact time that she needed to be without knowing)... Fortunately her dad did not stay to even introduced himself or even worse give me a talk... And she says "I had the greatest time"... "That was the whole purpose"... she opens the gate again and I tell her "Come here"... she got closed again with no questions asked and kissed her good night...

That's the end of this FR... Bottom line... be yourself, be confident, know your limits, be charming, take what you want... not what's given to you

edit: Need to get used to reddit formatting ha!