Have you ever noticed how much girls love to pose for the camera? It’s a fascinating phenomenon. Society has literally trained us to start posing the moment we see a camera.

This is especially true for women. The minute a camera appears they start primping and preening. They purse their lips and arch their backs to accentuate the butt. They make sexy faces and hand gestures. And the most interesting part is that they do it all without ever really thinking about it. That’s our Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook society for you…

So how can you use this information to your advantage?

Snap Pictures of Everyone You’re With – No Permission Necessary

Imagine if someone you're with pulls out their camera and says “hey let’s get a picture over there” or “hey quick selfie” or something similar and then just raised the camera. What would you do? You would just smile and pose. You wouldn’t even think about it.

Did they ask your permission? No. They just assumed it was fine and proceeded accordingly.

This is exactly what you can do with girls you’re attracting. After you’ve been talking with a girl for just a few minutes, you can generally consider yourself to have the green-light to break out the camera.

The best part is that cameras almost always put women into good moods.

The Selfie

Snapping a selfie with a girl you’re attracting is a simple way to start escalating kino. You should easily be able to get two touches with any selfie. First, in the picture itself. Second, with a hug, high five or a push/bump after the picture depending on what you say.

Examples:

Next To Each Other: This is the typical selfie position. Hold up your phone with one hand and wrap your other hand around her shoulder.

You In Front Of Her: This could happen in a situation where she’s standing on something which makes her taller than you. Or it could happen, for example, if she’s sitting on a bar stool and you’re leaning on the bar – you turn away from her and lean back “into her” for the selfie. Now she’s behind you. When you lean back, get as close as possible. If your body (your back) can touch her, great. In this situation it’s very possible she will put her hands on you (perhaps on your shoulders, on your hips or her arms wrapped around your stomach).

You Behind Her: In this situation you’re basically holding your arm out over her shoulder or you can give her the camera to take the shot. Either way, put your free hand(s) on her hips. Pull her in just enough so your bodies are touching.

After the selfie, take the camera and check out the shots. Then say something that will result in a second touch:

- “Good one. You look amazing.” Hold your hand out for a high five.

- “Good one. I look amazing (referring to yourself).” She rolls her eyes. You give her a slight push (a nudge away on the shoulder – or butt-bump her with the side of your butt – like if you’re standing side by side). Then you can pull her back in with an arm squeeze or hug and say something like “Awww it’s ok, you look pretty good too.”

Getting Her Number Without Ever Asking

If you take some really good pics, chances are she’s going to want them. Frankly, even if they’re not that good, she may still want them. This is a perfect way to get her contact information without making a big deal about “asking for her number.”

In order to give her the pictures, she’s going to have to give you some way to contact her. If she gives you her number to text her the pictures, great. If she gives you social media, then just casually ask for her number after posting the pictures: “Hey what’s your number by the way?” Asking at this moment often feels very logistical to her. You’re already adding her on social, so asking for her number is just a natural thing to do.

If she asks “why” or “why do you want my number?” Just say with complete confidence: “for the hot date we’re going on later this week.” Then just look her with The Smirk. Don’t say anything else. If you do that with the proper confidence, she’ll give you the number.

For When The Moment Isn’t Perfect

Sometimes you may feel like the attraction isn’t quite there yet. Maybe you haven’t been talking to her long enough. Maybe the mood isn’t ideal for pictures. In these cases, pulling out your phone to take a picture with her might seem weird.

So here’s what you do: take a picture of something else first and then transition into taking pictures with her.

Spot something nearby and just say something simple like “look at that” or “let me get a picture of that” and then snap a few shots of whatever you’re looking at. When you’re done, you can easily transition into taking a selfie together. If she responds well to the selfie (which they always do), then you can snap a few shots of her.

With this approach, you pull out your camera for another reason (i.e. to take a picture of something else) which makes the selfie seem like an afterthought. It’s perfectly normal to “think of” taking a selfie with someone else when you have your camera out already.

Social Media

Another benefit of taking lots of pictures with girls is maximizing preselection. Every picture you take of you and chicks together should be posted to social media. You want girls to see you in pictures with other girls. And girls who know you for any period of time (like in college) are going to stalk your social profile. So get your pictures up.

Getting Into Cameras

Photography isn’t a cheap hobby, but it’s a fantastic hobby for getting laid. Here’s a go-to date you can use with every girl: “Hey I’m going to shoot some pictures of [insert anything here], you want to go?”

As I said, women love photography. They love cameras. Anything that involves cameras is interesting to them. Plus, this date makes any place you go more interesting. Because you’re not just going there to be together and talk. You’re going there for some interesting purpose and being together and talking just occurs naturally without it having to be the focus.

That makes everything easier. Plus you’ll naturally get lots of pictures of her along the way which puts these two ideas together in her mind: (1) looking sexy and (2) being with you.

Golden.

Also, women like to start taking their clothes off in front of cameras. Also a fascinating phenomenon. I’ll save that topic for my next post on cameras.

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