Girlfriend of 5 years wants to break up with me over a dude she chatted with online

2020-09-23T15:43:44+00:00

She’s gotta get her shit straight, you should wish her the best and move on.

2020-09-23T16:20:14+00:00

If you really think about it she was cheating on you emotionally, so much so that it was killing her conscience and she broke up with you. Cheating is cheating, and most people know that if they cheat and their partner finds out they will get dumped. So in doing so, they are ok with the thought of being broken up with for their actions

Soggy2009 · 2020-09-23T16:28:09+00:00

Dump her ASAP! Move on and never give it another thought.

pilipinonguci11 · 2020-09-23T19:50:48+00:00

As I was reading through this post, a LOT of red flags are popping up to me. I think you already know what to do. Leave her ASAP and forget about her. Being willing to get a VISA because you chatted with somebody you met on Reddit for 5 days who lives overseas is a MASSIVE red flag, and shows that she has poor judgement in my opinion. I wouldn't be surprised if she suffers from some sort of personality disorder.

She is not worth the headache. Don't try to "win her back". You cannot force attraction. Find a woman who actually cares about you.

2020-09-23T20:35:57+00:00

You have to move on. Love is a two-way street. If she doesn't love you then let her go. Don't fight for someone that wouldn't fight for you. Besides if you are in your twenties it was bound to end anyway.

quinnmcd · 2020-09-23T23:45:16+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

2020-09-24T11:59:12+00:00

Sounds like a slew. She’s probably talking to a 600lb tranny with purple hair.

2020-09-23T16:53:35+00:00

Just pull back a bit, doesn't necessarily mean breaking up with her but just hold back because currently this is leading to a one way street and both sides need to contribute equally, maybe things work out with that other dude,it won't last long because the moment things go sideways she is going to remember her glorious past 5 years(as you say) and come back to you,Just emotionally withdraw for the timebeing also make sure she doesn't find your post on reddit.

Title	Girlfriend of 5 years wants to break up with me over a dude she chatted with online
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	September 23, 2020 3:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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