Background: Kudos to /u/Ciaran_Callam for starting 100 Women in 50 Days. Inspired by him, I decided to embark on this challenge as well and thought of posting my experience.
Woman 1: (25-28y, Parking lot)
While walking out from a cafe to parking, I saw a tall beautiful woman (5'11). I was mentally juggling with my negative thoughts.
1. Whether approach her or not?
2. What to say?
3. Anxiety- "She is too hot and will reject me".
Eventually in 3-5 secs I passed by her without saying anything. Then next second I thought "Fuck it. That's the whole point of approaching."
I turned around and followed her for like 10-15 steps to catch up. Then
Me: Excuse me.
Didn't realize she was talking over phone. She hung up which took 3-5 seconds and that was pretty awkward moment. As I haven't spoken a single word and I am standing right in front of her.
Finally she looks up at me.
Me: I know this is weird, but I saw you and you're so tall I couldn't resist to say Hi. <Offering my hand> I am ABC.
She: Hi, I am XYZ. <smiling>
Me: Oh, that's a <country> name. You didn't look like one. Where are you from?
She: I am. I am visiting from San Diego. What about you?
Me: Oh, that's a hard question. Generally woman don't talk to me once they know which state I am from.
Did some more chatting about what all she did. It was all smooth.
Me: You're so tall, I wanna hug you. Can I?
She: Sure.
Me: This feels soo good.
Talked about different hug experiences
Me: I love your hair as well. Though you might be thinking that this guy is just showering compliments. But they look good. Am I the first one to tell you that?
She: Laughing. No no. I have got the same compliment from women.
Me: When are you heading back?
She: Tonight at 9.
Me: Do you visit here often?
She: Yeah. "something something"
Me: Cool, let's go on a date when you visit here next time.
She: Sure.
Exchanged numbers and said bye
I texted her after 15 mins. "Hey, nice to meet you!" to which she didn't respond.
Take away: Here are some strange mental thoughts. I first thought she was too hot for me (Mentally rejecting myself). After talking to her and getting her number, I didn't feel much attraction. I initially thought to not even text her, but my long drive and ADHD made me to text her. Now I am not thinking about her except the whole experience of approaching her. Strange.
Woman 2: No other opportunity today.
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