I find that one of my biggest weaknesses with women is that I overthink a lot. It ends up fucking it up with some girl I’m pursuing. I do well on initial dates or when I meet them because I’m pretty good with conversation and I can charm them easily. But as time passes, I overthink myself into failure.

I start questioning how much I should text, if I should text/snap at all, if what I said was stupid. Then on later dates, because I spent the previous days and weeks overthinking, sometimes I’ll say some stupid non attractive stuff and trip myself up. It sucks because I’ve lost opportunities with some great women because of it.