Who's going to the bar or club alone?

tony18215 · 2017-09-24T04:09:46+00:00

I go a lot to dance clubs by myself .I enjoy it and score more cuz I don't have anyone holding me back

SupaZT · 2017-09-24T05:36:14+00:00

Fuck everyone is in groups of 4 plus**

Ok so be friended a married couple... The dude even introduced me to 2 girls... But then then girls eventually left sadly.

Way too many guys... Good practice though since I've not gone out in years alone

Watwherewhen · 2017-09-24T06:18:43+00:00

Personally I find bars/pubs a bit awkward and boring when you go alone. Clubs and parties are actually fun especially if it's a music you like. Genuinely enjoy & have fun, be the star and you will project it to your surroundings. Chicks will come dancing near you and make eye contact, boom you're in.

Two caveats here though.

Logistics: alright a chick starts dancing all over you, but she's still there with a group of friends, figuring out how to isolate / take her back to your place is not always easy
Big/impressive physical presence is crucial IMO, usually more so than dressing sharp. It's all physical/attraction based, you're not really going to speak much. I would imagine it would be tough in the club for smaller guys.

Fwest3975 · 2017-09-25T10:22:59+00:00

Think of it like this man, you can either go in there and sit frozen and scared (which feels excruciating and grueling for the entirety for your visit to the venue) OR try some shit...... Strike up convos with literally anyone. Even if you suck at it (like I did) your chances of having a good night are higher than option 1.....

Go in there and just be concerned with YOU having a good time. You will draw people in!!!!

DaygameCoach · 2017-09-24T14:21:59+00:00

You can do it. Yes, they'll let you in.For all they know, you're friend are inside. It's ok to go solo regardless.

2017-09-24T21:41:28+00:00

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SupaZT · 2017-09-25T00:59:07+00:00

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johnthesmith626 · 2017-09-25T01:35:47+00:00

I prefer not to myself, I always feel way too self-conscious for some reason. A man of high social value should, in theory, find someone to hang out with. I feel like that lonely, desperate guy trying to get a date, but that's just me

2017-09-26T18:11:51+00:00

Go to a bar that has a pool table/darts/shuffle board. You can pass the time in a fun way with other dudes. When girls come you can invite them to play with you.

Title	Who's going to the bar or club alone?
Author	SupaZT
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	September 24, 2017 3:27 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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