So I've been a lurker here for a while and I have to be real, this community has helped me immensely. I've had success with women that I never imagined by using some very awesome tips found here.... But I had a shitty experience that I wanted to share.

So I have started talking to HB8 at Potbelly's (she works there), I normally go there for lunch every once in a while and we have casually chatted. I thought I'd move things up a notch and change our relationship so I asked her if she was on facebook, she gave me her last name (only knew her first at this point) to add her. Her name did not show up on Facebook, so next time I went we had a little chat as usual and I threw in that I couldn't find her. It turns out her name is spelled in some weird exotic way and she spelled it out for me ... Very slowly and eloquently actually. Anyways, finally found her and added her. Check her name today, and I'm pretty sure she blocked me. It was a big ego hit because I may not be an empath but I thought things we had chemistry. Do you think its a bad idea to ask for a girls Facebook, should you just man up and always go for the #?