EDIT: FOUND IT! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QuKWH8x7_oM

I saw a video about 6-9 months ago, it was set in a cafe of some description. There was a guy talking to a bunch of people about opening at clubs and stuff.

There were 2 techniques he described, one was called 'the claw' I think, I can't remember what is involved. The other one is what I'm really after, it involved more or less a ballroom dancing move where you would grab a girls hand, pull her in close, pick her up, and spin around with her (like ballroom dancing). After you spin a couple of times you would stop, put on a shit eating grin and introduce yourself.

I tried this once at a club and ended up k-closing because of it and I'd really love to find the video again.