Meeting girls I'm fine with but its the interaction over txt after a few days of seeing them is what ruins it. Like tonight a girl just txt me saying "hey you" to which I said "hey babe, what are you up to" then it got to me asking what she did today and she said she just worked and from that I had nothing, just full blanked out. I don't know how but I can never think of fun and whitty things to say, okay I do come up with something occasionally but then I just flatline.

It's a problem that's kept me single and with very little sex for years now, I just don't understand what people say to each other after they've been seeing each other. Like I can't say this cause we already talked about it or I hope she doesn't think I'm a creep if I ask that. Whether I have no connection with the girl or don't understand myself enough to create one.

Does anyone else have this problem or had a similar problem and overcame it, if so what helped you?