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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good post. Obviously, you want to be in the middle ground, but I would like to emphasize that if you aren't sure where you are, it's probably better to be closer to level 3 than level 1.
NOW BEFORE you say I'm advocating rape, hear me out--I only say that because I trust that you know fully well how NOT to rape someone, and that you would never do that. What I mean is that when it comes to making a move, it's better to go too soon and too aggressive than too late and too AFC.
So obviously, don't hold someone down and take advantage of them, or prey on drunks, but DO go for the kiss, DO go for the kino, DO make the move. Worst case scenario, she slaps you, and you move on. That is a better outcome than spending money on drinks and her thinking you're a loser, in my opinion.
[–]chumpta 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
good analysis. the sheer fact that you've categorized AFC wimpiness and idiot aggression both with a simple idea, "discomfort" is what makes this interesting for me.
i agree with probama that you wanna lean more towards 3 than 1, in most cases. but like daygame and stuff youd probably want to lean more on 1. but i cant see you ever wanting to go further into 1 than you would into 3.
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