so i met a random girl who i initially found attractive because of her smiling and laughing alot. i told her that i d like to grab a coffee with her got her number..

so we went to some coffee, and we talked alot... but i didnt feel like she was that attractive anymore (physically).. so i wasnt trying to kino... i think my issue was, because its been a couple month since last time i had sex, i wanted to fk her, she was an ok looking girl, but i really wasnt sure about wanting anything more...

so i didnt kino and we just talked abit... she was laughing and smiling alot and we had the usual strong eye contact etc.. i just didnt escalate or kino much...

ok so today i got a message that she doesnt know if i was interested in her, but she was not interested in me (not exactly those words).

obviously every girl is different, but yeah, we talked alot but i think what missed was *) my lack of interested in her physically *) us notbeeing able to connect on a special topic *) not much kino

i m just looking for a sort of analysis on what went wrong? so i can improve just to be curious, because i really think, if i really liked her i would have straight done something (went for more kino, or even just telling her that)