What's up yall, hope you are all doing well.

Got a question for all of you. How to proceed to the next level of hanging out with girls from just vaguely knowing each other?

I'll give an example. I see this girl everyday in the library and talk to her cuz she works there and I make basic small talk like hows your day going what classes u taking etc, but I never have enough time in day to escalate. It's always brief. I always make her laugh and I know how to carry a conversation and ask intersting questions but how to set up a date?

I don't know how to text so this is what I would do.

Just send her a text on thursday saying shes pretty cool and if she would like to go get some coffee with me on friday?

Same thing with other scenarios. I know a lot of girls who know me but I don't know how to proceed or start making anything interesting. All I can of is to just ask them abruptly if they want to go on a date with me on a certain date. I have no idea what casual conversation is or texting.

I am probably giving too many fucks, aren't I? I can talk to girls and know how to ask questions and thread into other topics and add my own input and be charismatic, etc. I just have such a hard time getting to a 1 on 1 scenario where we can do that and then become relaxed around each other. There's lots of steps to setting up a date or hanging out and I have no idea how to be casual lol.

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Any responses welcome, im probs overthinking it

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