Went on a date with the Polish lingerie model I met over Tinder on Saturday afternoon. I didn't do much of the leading in the interaction, as she invited me to her hotel right off the bat earlier on the night before. This was date was by far the best I have had this year and in my overall seduction learning experience. We met in her hotel lobby at 1pm not long after she checked out of her apartment. She told me the cleaning lady didn't show up until 2 1/2 hours after 10am (which is the standard check out time to checkout/vacate in many hotels) and she had the whole room to herself for the whole morning up until that point. She wore a black lace top, black dark blue jeans, a black leather jacket and long black trench coat, topped with a wide brimmed black hat, giving her an archetypal model look. Her hair was bright blonde and had a very youthful complexion augmented by her makeup, despite the fact that she was 31 years old.

She was in Auckland for 3 days working on a photoshoot, having spent 6 weeks working extensively in Australia. This was her first time in Auckland, let alone New Zealand and she had literally seen none of the city in the 2 days she had spent working here. Over Tinder, she requested that I be her 'tour guide' and show her about town. The Auckland Art Gallery is my go-to option when it comes to showing travelling foreign women about, alongside a few waterfront locations, which is a great option if they are staying in hotels or apartments in close proximity. I would showed her more extensively around the fringes around the CBD, as well as parts of the North Shore if I owned or had access to a car, but unfortunately I was under a somewhat tight time constraint due to the fact she needed to leave for the airport at 5.30 that afternoon.

We walked over to the Art Gallery and she asked me some questions about my musical musicians and her efforts to get into classical music by listening to Beethoven. I told her about the various things I do and how I like exploring a multitude of different musical styles and aesthetics as a composer and performer. I told her about a Adam Darski (the frontman of a Polish blackened death metal band called Behemoth), as we walked passed a Roman Catholic Church around the corner from her hotel and I was a metalhead in my teenage years. She mentioned she is based in Krakow but spends a great deal of her time travelling to various parts of the world attending to various modelling jobs.

We went to a cafe adjacent to the art gallery where we bought iced coffee. Here is where she began to become superflirty with me, asking me about my polyamory interests (advertised on Tinder) and complimenting me on dark "Armenian/Jewish" complexion and asking the same "where are you from?" questions every girl asks me. She remarked that my photos make me appear older than I actually am and I could easily pass as a 28 year old. As she was finishing her iced coffee on the sofa of art gallery foyer, she asked me what I was looking for on Tinder. I told her was looking for fun and adventure and I was really aiming to get the best out of life. She asked me a great deal questions about my dating history and told her about a couple of Russian girls I dated, as well as telling me about the strenuous lifestyle of models like herself working, partying and not finding the time to connect and hang with people, hence why she was on Tinder. By the way just for the record, this was her first Tinder date ever. Yes, you read that, correctly.

We walked around the art gallery and I showed her all the contemporary New Zealand art on display and some contemporary Australian art. She talked about how she went to art school and how she was able to master everything all the contemporary artists did in their works (her response to the majority of works was "I could do that"). We took selfies and she took a photo of me with an a quasi-impressionist painting of someone that supposedly resembled me to a degree. We went into a paid exhibition (where she obtained a free ticket from a generous attendee) of nude artwork throughout history. This was really when things began to escalate emotionally and physically. She remarked that she didn't like me patting her arm or back affectionately but she liked me caressing her. She asked me whether I have attended any sex parties before, to which I rail on about the gangbang I attended in another CBD hotel and the Fetish Ball I attended at the end of last year. She was intrigued to know about FetLife and was bemused by what she had missed out on in terms of kink events, gangbangs, orgies and sex parties in general. There was a great deal of non-verbal communication between me in her, consisting of flirty stares and touching, with a kiss slipped in.

We went downstairs and fetched our belongings from the personal storage booth and made our way to an upmarket bar a kilometre away for some wine and some food. Here we physically escalated more and I began to make out with her and I could notice she was becoming horny. I had plans to show her to one of the semi-secluded bunch of pristine, unisex toilets near the internal stairwell of the building but she reluctantly refused because we needed to walk back to her hotel. I made out with her periodically in short, but sensual intense episodes as we walked back to her hotel. We couldn't find the time to search for somewhere at hotel, as she needed to fetch her baggage from reception. I made out with her more and made a last minute effort to finger her underneath her trench coat, but her bus arrived as soon as I had her hands in her pants. I assisted with her baggage onto the bus and parted ways from there. It was bummer we didn't make it to sex but it was nonetheless a huge leap from where I have been in the past several months.

Went and approached a women walking from her shift at an upmarket department store not long after, until she swiftly changed directions and I lost orientation (I wasn't sure whether to continue interacting with her). Life goes on. ;)

If you have any of you fellow seddittors have advice with dating, escalating and fucking women in limited time frames or who need to leave town, I would love to read it below.