Better for a male to peak in 20s or 30s?

2017-08-21T11:17:04+00:00

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2017-08-21T11:43:56+00:00

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2017-08-21T11:55:17+00:00

In my 30's, still trying to peak.

Murfdigidy · 2017-08-21T13:15:06+00:00

Doesn't matter, learn from this sub and continue to learn as we all do regardless of skill. I was a virgin all thru high school and college, some say I missed out on so much by not being good with women and having low confidence. Fact is maybe they're right maybe they're not, at the end of the day I'm just happy I learned at all.

Being such a late bloomer I learned so much thru my failures, I suffered a lot and as a result i came out better. I can now out game all my friends who were getting laid years and years before I was. Fact is it doesn't matter when you peak, what matters is being lucky enough to one day peak because there are many that go a lifetime without ever doing so.

Also it's not peaking, you don't peak you continue to get better each day, because even the best seducer has more to learn. There is no right time there is only now

recyclablebanthas · 2017-08-21T13:54:05+00:00

I've been thinking recently that males tend to have a decade in which they seem to do their best generally in terms of appearance and getting women.

Based on what scientific studies?

If you're going to say it's just what you think you've observed, then let's stop right there and acknowledge that personal anecdotes are not solid ground for a theory.

Some guys seem to peak in high school, others are in their 30s before they get their full confidence, work out their 'look' and things fall into place.

Doesn't matter for shit. They aren't you.

How about you focus on having was much fun as you want, instead of trying to figure out how to limit yourself by coming up with bullshit age limits?

When you're on your deathbed, you can worry about what decade you peaked, if that even applies.

This makes me wonder, do you think longer term outcomes are better for a guy that seems to peak in his 20s, or his 30s?

What the hell does this even mean?

Life doesn't fit into some bullshit box like this. I have a buddy who over 50. Doesn't ever want to settle down. Still dates women in their late 20s and 30s. Has a great time with life.

And if he were thinking the same nonsense you're trying to get people to agree with here, he'd be miserable.

Lucky for him, he isn't buying into this sort of nonsensical, unhelpful crap.

Thinking about peaks that haven't arrived yet, is a waste of time.

Title	Better for a male to peak in 20s or 30s?
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Upvotes	6
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Date	August 21, 2017 10:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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