I have this crazy odd anxiety, I wear condoms so I don't worry about that but what I do worry about is making out with girls. Like I will purposely not kiss girls I meet sometimes because I'm worried they have herpies. And yeah yeah I get it, I've heard the whole 80% of adults have it but still, it's an actual worry of mine and even after kissing random girls I meet at bars I'll worry about it for a few days afterwards. I've seen maybe a 1-2 girls on average per week from Tinder and usually it ends up in a makeout sesh.

For example, about a month ago I made out with a girl and I got some chapped lips a few days after, I panicked even though I knew it was only chapped lips (cuz of the pain), and got myself tested, nothing. Felt silly afterwards but I still worry.

Does anyone else have the same worry? And how do you deal with overcoming it?