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[–]yung_yessir 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do you watch porn? stop watching if you do, it has helped me alot
[–]Nikel87 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sometimes it just not working as you want. Biggus Dickus has its own mind.
I have had my times when he just Nopes and it's awkward but thats okay. Same for girls, one day it's flooding and the next it's the sand of Sahara.
[–]SimeyEyes 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She may have ruined the excitement for you by telling you openly. You may not be conscious about it but she kinda took from you the opportunity to seduce her. At least for me that would be a turnoff.
[–]starsintodreams 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think that you would know if you were nervous or not. More often than not, this is due to confidence, lack of drive or respect taking priority of the situation. Something tells me that there's something more to this roommate... What's up with that and why would her roommate be mad?
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[–]SimeyEyes 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can talk about it to convince her because its a bit of a confusing situation for you. But maybe also give it some time.. pushing it could screw things up. Go do some non-sex stuff first to strengthen your bond. Also try to separate the talking from the sexy time and take control of the situation, maybe change the environment.
Regarding the horny part itself: eye contact
[–]smgtn 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This is what happens when chicks make shit awkward in the moment. Couple of weeks ago I was in a hotel bed with this naked blonde and she basically said that she knows I want her to blow me but she's not gonna. That was an instant 6 o'clock moment, but I managed to recover shortly after, because I was prepared - popped 25 mg of Sildenafil before just in case.
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[–]smgtn 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Viagra is just a brand name, Sildenafil is the original name of the chemical compound. I don't have ED or anything, but sometimes I just take the lowest dose if I wanna go all night, but I am in my late 30s.
[–]PiperBigBell 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Not enough information bro. Were you actually nervous in real time? Were you feeling confident? Do you have erectile issues? Were you horny before you two met up? Was your mind running a thousand miles a minute when she sat on your lap? Does a girl sitting on your lap turn you on? For me it doesn't.
Certain foreplay and submissive behavior does. But you still need to be inspired. Do you know what turns you on? If so and you know you're gonna have sex, you need to lead and set up a dynamic where things are going your way. What turns you on with other girls? And how does that compare to this girl? I find many girls attractive but certain things still have to happen in order for me to want to break them off.
[–]PiperBigBell 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea man, sounds like you need to discover what you need.
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