Please forgive my bad grammar because ASL is my primary language.

I'm deaf and college student, Yes, I've been to parties and sleep with deaf/hearing girls in my college. (I'm student at Rochester Institute of Technology.)

Since this summer, I'm in University of Washington for temporary because of my job.. I've turn into 21 in few weeks ago. It's mean bars/clubs are available for me but problem.. I didn't have any wing-men because my friends usually bitch out and don't want to go to bars/clubs with me. Around UW, I've attend to frats' party by invited from hearing girls that I'm hit on. So, I wanna to try somewhere different. What should I do? without make myself look like loser by going to those places as alone.

Plus how would I make communication with people in bars/clubs? I'm usually talk with hearing girls at party by type on phone. Is it same as I can do at bars?

Any advice would be apprenticed

Thank you.