So after reading this excellent post about what women want in relationships, I got to thinking about different ways to actually execute those things. (Quick recap, the 4 things girls want are: 1. to have fun 2. to feel sexy 3. to feel protected 4. to feel loved.)

The OP gave some examples of how to carry out these things, but I've come up with an idea of my own. Hope this helps. Please please please contribute.

Dreams. Say you had a dream about her, and in it you were doing one of these things. For example, I told a girl I just started dating that she was in my dream last night. When she asked what it was about, I said some big biker dude with lots of scars and tattoos grabbed her ass, and I beat him up for it. She went, "Mmm protective. I like that." So without even having to do anything, I've planted the "feels protected" seed in her mind. I'm not sure if using this over again on the same girl will be a good idea. In hindsight, I should have told a story about a dream that incorporated all those values. For example, I could have dreamt that we were out at a carnival having a contest to see who can win the most stuffed animals (fun), and some guy grabbed her ass so I beat him up (protected), and then she was so turned on by it that she pulled me into the photo booth where we ravaged each other (sexy), and later that night we laid together in a park gazing at the stars and sharing secrets (love).

I don't know the psychology behind dreams, but I know a lot of people THINK they're a manifestation of urges/desires/memories. So by telling about a dream in which you display certain values, she'll think those are qualities you either embody or want to embody.

That's really all I got. Let me know what you think.