Out on a Tuesday with my friends. It's a college bar and it is jam packed. You can't move without bumping into someone and the music is so loud, normal convo doesn't work unless you're ear to ear. Its also important to note that everybody knows everybody. I'm in a fraternity and the same sorority girls are out along with the usual crew and some new faces. My goal is to always hook up with someone who I've noticed in the past and have wanted.

One of the sororities had just admitted their members so there were 15 new girls out and getting crazy on the dance floor. I'm drinking a beer with my friend and he looks at me and goes "These girls are wild." I don't know what it was but I just had to get a piece after that. I solo approached and was dancing nearby until my target kinda bumped into me (her back to me). I know I should have approached from front/side but she was in a circle with 15 girls and the bar was so packed it wouldn't allow it. I overplayed her bumping into me and said something like "whoa whoa, watch it there" and smiled. She glanced back at me and said sorry but then turned back around.

Hmmm. How to isolate from 15 girls? Direct approach. I grabbed her arm and spun her around and said "Who are you?" She responds, I'm HB8.5 and just got into so and so sorority." I told her "Thats awesome, I'm in so and so fraternity." Small banter for a minute then I say "cmon lets celebrate" and spin her back around and pull her onto me. Next thing you know she's grinding on me.

We dance for about 20 minutes and alternate between her facing me and not. Whenever she faces me she came in real close like she wanted to kiss so I teased her and kept giving her 1-3 second kisses. I wanted more because she was hot and had an incredible body but I'm not too big of a fan of kissing in college bars because everyone knows everyone and people in Greek life gossip. Ive hooked up with quite a few girls and don't want to get a bad rep.

Eventually a song ends and she says she's going to rejoin her friends. Its understandable since she just got in and it was her first night out in 2 months. I give her my phone and say "put your number in." She doesn't just put it in. She also puts her full name.

I text her my name and we part ways after that. I continue my frame of dancing and having a good time. She can see this and I eventually leave the bar with my friends when it closes.

We go on spring break this weekend and I'm not going out this week again because I'm swamped with work so I'm not sure what to do. I want to text her this week to keep me in her mind and then chat a bit over break. These girls in Greek life are different than others because they're constantly surrounded by guys so unless you actively pursu them, you'll probably end up losing them. Also they're only like 18 so they're still immature and more self-conscious than others.

Tips, comments, thoughts?