So as guys we get sexual tension going and we get horny and get frustrated when we can't bang who made us horny.

I was getting friendly with the girl from my date and I was loving it and seemed she did too but I had problems progressing physically when I shouldn't have. I did push past though. I thought about it and I am thinking that for women it seems that if they don't get a guy to fulfill the desires that are being brought on emotionally that they get a tension we don't, in their emotions. If we can't fix that then they will get frustrated and next us.

I knew a guy who would take girls home and if he didn't fuck them, they wouldn't ever call him back. If he did fuck them, they would call him back. They would get pissed that he didn't fuck them lol.

So don't give your girl blue balls... fulfill her needs and push past your insecurities and make shit happen. Let her turn you down... that isn't your job to turn yourself down.