So we went to a coffee shop. I am 29 and she was 25. I made lot of jokes and made her laugh. I gave me good hug at the end of date. I used push pull technique and she did text me first. Later she asked me if I had seen her personality on OkC. I told her no , because that was honest answer. Suddenly, switch was flipped and I could sense something was wrong.

I asked her out again last Friday. She said he had some work to do and had plans on Sunday. I again asked her out on Tuesday and she said that she is not attracted to me. I pressed for why she thought so. These are her exact words -

"Self confidence is most attractive. No matter what other little things are"

So she didn't find me confident enough. I really don't know what to do to improve my confidence ?