I'm 24 years old, I'm just out of college, and I've never had a girlfriend. I have Asperger's and I'm pretty sure I have facial abnormalities consistent with a developmental disability. Am I too ugly to be attractive to a woman? (pics included)

cocainfancy · 2016-06-06T01:39:22+00:00

I just looked at your pics and you look normal as fuck homie. I've seen fools WAYYYY uglier than you pull mad bitches. So in the looks department you're face is fine dude. Work out, lift, get big muscles and your face won't even matter. As for game that's all mental. Read some books. I'd suggest models, how to win friends and influence people, the charisma myth, and other shit like that. Again, you got nothing to worry about face wise. The girls bring the looks, you bring the behavior. Don't forget that.

vancityx · 2016-06-06T01:40:59+00:00

Look normal too me, you have some confidence issues it sounds like that you need to work out. Stop worrying so much you look normal dude lol.

2016-06-06T01:54:42+00:00

I am a very beautiful man. Chicks chase me around and everything. Some women dream about dating me for years, others get obsessed. I also have really really bad ADHD, complete with stuttering, massive anxiety, you name it... I used to be a very socially inept, anxiety ridden, insecure chump who had the striking unbreakable belief that I was just butt fucking ugly, which I later discovered is just this worlds male oppression, where only women can be beautiful and most men are just ugly, smelly, ape-like ogers...

Upon vast introspection, I learned I was wrong about everything just as you may be.

Coming from me, I'll be honest, you're a pretty good looking dude. I could realistically imagine and even expect a guy with ur looks to be sucking faces of very beautiful women. You got some nice big lips, no homo, and i can imagine chicks probably fantasizing about those lips sucking on their clits and stuff...

Having said all this, clearly you are beautiful, so the looks part is not the issue... The issue, is your mind, your lack of confidence, your insecurity, your insanity, your reality...

Go watch RSD's Blueprint, its a 19 hour lecture that should put you in the right place.

TissueReligion · 2016-06-06T01:37:27+00:00

You look like a pretty normal person, man. I would definitely not ever just look at you and assume you have any kind of developmental disability.

You also write pretty coherently relative to the rest of reddit's population... lol.

the_whalerus · 2016-06-06T01:40:20+00:00

You're definitely not ugly. You look fine with a smile on. For that matter, most women aren't that concerned with how you look -- you can't be butt ugly, but if you're decent looking, plenty of women will like you.

Work on being more charming in conversation with people. Men and women. You'll notice that people will like you. Checking out at the grocery store? Chat with the person behind the counter. About anything. It doesn't matter.

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