What are some good ways to explain to a woman why whatever behavior she displayed was unacceptable without seeming butthurt? I feel like soft nexting for a first offense of minor issues can come off as being a baby beta. If she continues or repeats her mistake then obviously soft next, then hard next if needed. But what are some good things I could say before it gets to that point? I need to find a way to explain bad behavior without breaking frame by “explaining how that made me feel”