Hello My name is Helpme128

130 lbs

23 Y/O male

mild acne

rejected by 100 girls on dating apps[ 80% of which i would never approach in real life]

rejected by 40+ girls in real life [50-75% of which i was genuinely interested due to there outfit/something unique.]

I believe we need to stop telling guys to approach every girl, and its a number game, and start approaching when you feel a genuine interest in girls. We've all been in class before and seen 4-5 girls we'd like to have sex with but let's be honest only 1-2 of those girls we were really actually wanting to meet. I'm trying to say approach the girl that makes you want to be to the best "you." Stop treating women like open holes and treat them like people. It will raise you're SMV in you're own head and that's the only SMV that matters. Sure maybe approaching a few girls at the start is good and maybe I'm losing "sexual opportunities". But the sex I'm gonna have is gonna blow the sex you have out of the water cause I'm getting the girl I naturally felt sexual energy festering inside of me for. You can either be the beta of you're sexual wants or the chad of your sexual needs. I learned this after a year and a half of online dating and countless low energy hookups. Choose the energy you put out.

TLDR:Don't approach 200 "hot girls" so you can get laid once.

Sources: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/y1h0d/im_interested_in_what_you_ladies_think_of/

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