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[–]Redditorsheaven 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Upvoted. I am also interested in this one. I do not know what to do when I see beautiful women or my type of women. The thing is I don’t know if the other person likes when I am looking at them. Im in between ‘being confident enough to looking at women in the eye’ and ‘doing my own important shit and ignoring’ vibes.
[–]Lenorma 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’ll tell about myself. Men are looking all the time, you kinda getting use to it and not paying much attention. But it also very much depends on how they are looking at you. IMO if a man is looking in your eyes it’s kinda flattering and it’s better than when he stares at your breasts or bottom and you pretend you don’t see it. By the way, I tell you there are not many guys who would be confident enough to look women in the eyes you’ll stand out)) And then just see her reaction if she doesn’t like it start ‘doing own important shit’ 😁
[–]Redditorsheaven 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I agree. Im not bad looking dude either. Want to know how do girls feel when I look at them. So, good eye contact is best thing to do😄
[–]anon1880 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Impact = i would ask her on a date :)
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[–]anon1880 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If he is interested eventually he will ask you out.. Give him a boost by complimenting him
[–]letsgetrandy 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
In general, this sounds good, but it's important that we establish what kind of eye contact. Like if it's a wide-eyed stare, you're going to look like a creepy stalker! But if it's a soft gaze, like bedroom eyes, you're going to have all of his attention.
It's important to keep in mind that there is a major difference between men and women when it comes to eye contact. Women use a lot of eye contact and see it as connecting to a person. Conversely, men tend to see eye contact as some form of invading personal space -- eye contact when not expected is seen as an act of aggression.
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[–]letsgetrandy 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, it's definitely more difficult to read from men, because for men eye contact is instinctively an act of aggression... but then we read things or hear things about dating that say "women love eye contact" and if nobody teaches you there's a right way and a wrong way, it's easy to understand how a guy could give the aggressive stare thinking "well this is what they say they want!" never knowing he's scaring her.
I think the safe bet, though, is that even if we gave him the benefit of the doubt (probably it really is innocent in most cases!) you still have to ask yourself, "if he lacks the social skill to understand the difference between aggressive eye contact and welcoming eye contact, what other scary things am I in for if I give him my attention?"
[–]ethanashtonn 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
please rephrase your question
though ill answer the best I can
In my opinion women want to lose the stare contest, when you make eye contact and she holds it, just look right back at her until she turns her gaze which is the usual result
if she doesnt make it fun, get real close like sherlock holmes and inspect her eye with great detail
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