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[–]alphabachelor 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
No, it doesn't.
This community is about becoming a better man, its about developing your inner game. The skills you learn will pay off dividends in all types of relationships, not just with your girlfriend or wife.
For example, negs are gimmicks. Being able to articulate a different point of a view in a positive, playful manner isn't.
It's okay to give and take love. The key is not because you feel you have to, so you can keep her around. It's because she compliments you and vice versa.
Edit: Changed fun to playful.
[–]FedoraSenpai420 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"The more love you give the more you get back"
There's some truth to that, but it can backfire. Consider how it feels to hear "I love you" from a very warm and affectionate family member or old friend, and compare that feeling to how it feels to hear "I love you" from a much colder and more distant family member or old friend. Doesn't it just somehow mean more in the second case?
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