I was deep in the friendzone so I pushed it like an idiot and now she isn't comfortable with me. She used to flirt with me and stuff, and then it went into full friendzone over the summer. Now she's cold shouldering me at church, and I'm moving away soon. She's insecure and stuff, and we live in a small town. After i pushed it she doesn't even want to be friends anymore. I'm in desperate need of help. There's also the fact that she's a family friend and could ruin my reputation if i go after her as I am an older guy going to grad school.