Having Better Dates.... Tips/Tricks/Advice?

2015-04-08T00:18:47+00:00

Don't be afraid of escalation. Touch her right away, the intimate vibe needs to be established quick. Don't escalate too far unless you're in a place you can fuck though.
Open your real self up. You don't have to be perfectly 'alpha', or saying exactly what 'you're supposed to' all the time. You need to have a natural amount of vulnerability. If you are feeling down, you can briefly bring up what's on your mind. You can tell her secrets (nothing fucked up obviously lol). She doesn't want to watch a one man play titled "the perfect man", she want's to get to know the real you.
Try to make it feel like it is just you and her in the world, and that how you two feel about each other is all that matters in the moment. To do this you have to not dull how you feel, or mask it like we as men tend to do. This is a double edge sword, because your ability to be hurt increases when your ability to love increases. But it's worth it, when you do feel connected. You have to focus only on her, and how you to feel in the moment. You don't have to constantly push exclaiming these infatuated feelings, but don't hide them, or have any shame of them. It is not a lack of alpha or a lack of masculinity as some retards on here think it is.

Skip_Azzi · 2015-04-08T13:49:48+00:00

I suggest you read "Models" by Mark Manson. This is a very good read on the art of seduction.

Title	Having Better Dates.... Tips/Tricks/Advice?
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Date	April 7, 2015 11:37 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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