Hey guys, long time lurker/ follower.

Used to be 300lbs +, now I’m just under 200lbs with a muscular frame, wouldn’t say I’m jacked though.

After reading through the forum and the RP sidebar about 9 months ago I’ve been approaching life differently, approaching more women online and offline, successfully pulling women ranging from one night stands with an Insta model to 3 week plate spins (any longer gets boring for me).

But now I’m stuck in a situation that I’ve never encountered before and was wondering if I could get some help on this.

I recently found this girl that is JUST my type. Insta followers sub 1000, which is a good sign for me, but her snapchat is booming w 130k snaps sent, don’t know if this matters. (I try not too look to deep)

Anyways, I slid in the DMs, got the number after 4 mins of short conversation. We started texting, I sent her pics of myself (my social media is mostly my art). Good responses like “I would throw that ass on you” lmao. I ask her out to go get food, says she’s broke, I tell her don’t worry about it, she diverts. More convo, she says I get her wet, nothing sexual was said till now btw. I ask for her snap. Very good response times, like within 2 mins of me sending she’ll respond. Then I tell her to hit me up when she’s down to meet up. She keeps pushing for conversation. Sends me snaps of partial nudes, etc. Says she’s home alone, but when I hint at a meet up she diverts.

At this point I would have secured atleast a date but I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.

From the time I DM’d her to today it has only been 3 days, so I don’t know if I’m rushing things or not. I’m also leaving the country for 2 weeks next Saturday so I was hoping to secure a meet up before to make her have a tangible memory of me rather than a guy she snapchats.

Sorry for the long post, just wanted to try to paint as well of picture of the situation as I could.