I hate to post this here cause it sounds beta AF but the fuck head mods at r/relationships are removing & locking my posts because I post here or the_donald or something petty but:

I don't know how to address this with her as she is so stoic most of the time when we are with her family or it's not just us two but is sweet & submissive with me at the same time, it makes it really, really hard to approach the situation.

I do all the work, I carried the convos, I arranged all of our hangouts( 3-4 times a week average and usually at my place on weeknights and we go out on the weekend then back to my house).

We have sex every single time we see each other and it's fantastic but even there, I do all the fucking work and even when she is on top cause of her bad hip/flexibility issues in hamstrings.

I guess it's causing some type of resentment but I don't want to breakup with her cause this is literally the only gripe I have cause she's everything I look for in potential LTR.

She is really smart, hates sluts and leftists/liberals, beautiful, witty, cunning, super independent,great job and very carrier oriented, highly successful, in perfect physical shape with amazing body, health oriented, amazing heart, sober, doesn't smoke cigs, amazing relationship with her large family, tough & mildly tomboyish( she works out and is strong AF) but so sweet and submissive with me when we are together and she mildly baby talks around me(best of both worlds cause that shit turns me on.)

Problem is this shit is mentally and physically draining though she is super appreciative of everything I do, tells me she is crazy about me, after sex always talks about how amazing it was( Sex God Method boys) but I've lost an erection during sex the last two times but I got it back up and finished and got her off quite a few times so it's not a problem of her satisfaction but mine.

How should I bring this up to her?