Long time lurker here, I’ve been implementing small red pills into my life for maybe 2 years now but have been aware of the philosophy for longer.

I’m 22 years old and today my oneitis gave me the cut claiming that her mental illness is what is holding her back from moving forward with a relationship and it initially made me emotional for a while but I am here now asking how to move forward. I’ve been aware of her issues but have looked past them because of how attractive she is 8/10 had all the same interest and easy to talk to etc. Another issue is that she is friends with a lot of my friend group and I will see her at social gatherings.

I have a plate that is still crazy about me but not exactly the best looking girl around and I haven’t seen her in about two weeks. I will start riding that for a while, while I am improve myself in other ways such as financially and getting myself back on a diet and gym.

Any general advice to give I suppose?