Where can I find a fucking girl who's not 24/7 on social media?

I'm 21 and I've had 3 LTR's so far. I broke up with all 3 of them because of excessive social media use. When we're out on a date they keep asking to take pictures together and post it on Snapchat/Instagram. When we were at a restaurant they would tell me to wait before eating my plate. They wanted to take a picture of the fuckin' food before eating it and got mad if I ate it because I was hungry. It's 1 AM, I want to sleep and my gf is on her phone, browsing Instagram. If I'm with a person I like, I put my down away and don't look at it, it's just a matter of respect.

Now I'm single. I go out there, flirt with girls online and in real life. I gave up on online dating because it's a sack of shit and just a tool to give girls validation. BUT EVEN if I flirt girls in real life, they are all the same.

Met this girl in real life and we hit it off, she started following me on Instagram, I checked out her profile and she had 200+ pictures and atleast 70% were selfies, strong attention seeking behaviour. Met another girl at the gym, same story, she even posted pics of her ass on her Instagram. 70% of the girls, if not more are social media sluts and it's driving me crazy. I knew a girl, she was ugly as fuck when she was 15, she's my age now and pretty. She posts 2 pictures a day and even told me she wanted to be Insta famous, strong insecurities, what the fuck.

Where do I find a girl who doesn't care about social media and is confident. A girl with goals in life who doesn't need validation from hundreds of guys. I deleted Snapchat and Instagram. I just kept it around, because it was an easy way to recognize a social media slut.