Interests vs disinterests: which is better?

MockingDead · 2011-10-23T00:22:45+00:00

Girls nowadays are used to literally dozens of guys taking interest in them. This is especially true of peopel who DLV.

In MM, you can display interest once you've built attract. To build attraction you DHV (demonstrate higher value, for the noobs).

Get where I am going MM says show interest once you DHV. RSD assumes you have high dmonstrable high value when you show interest.

2011-10-23T14:18:19+00:00

Go out more and your questions will solve themselves.

But I'll be a gentleman and answer your question.

showing interests works because it makes people feel special so they associate those good feelings with you

It depends. If you're a fucking cool person (ie. offering value) showing respect to everyone, then people will feel special because you're a cool person. If you're not a cool person (not offering value), then people won't give a shit.

pshychological reasoning behind disinterest is?

Women can smell desperation a mile away. And desperation is something that almost all noobies have. Whether it's desperation for sex, or desperation to get a good interaction from the women. A chode is either worried about fucking the girl, or looking good in front of the girl. Either way, you're on a lower status since you're putting the girl on a pedestal, whether it's for sex or so "you don't get blown out".

Real motherfuckers don't give a shit (you're not pretending to be disinterested, YOU REALLY AREN'T INTERESTED). If you get the girl, you get the girl. If you don't get the girl, move on to the next set.

According to RSD, you CAN display interests upfront so long as you are confident and high value. However, many books on sucessful people say you should use rapport building techniques from the beginning of a relaitonship (smiling, direct eye contact, etc)

How are these mutually exclusive? You show intent with smiling and direct eye contact and etc.

** tl;dr these are novice questions that will automatically fix themselves from going out. nothing wrong with seeking help, but seddit is tired of seeing the same silly questions that all have the same answer, GOING OUTSIDE **

heckz · 2011-10-25T07:55:21+00:00

You won't learn this from a book or from advice on reddit. Try it out.

Title	Interests vs disinterests: which is better?
Author	Theillbehaviored
Upvotes	4
Comments	3
Date	October 22, 2011 9:08 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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