Having/setting up "friends with benefits" in various locations?

Masterplacebo · 2016-03-28T01:38:12+00:00

Hey OP I do this on a smaller scale I live in fort worth, but frequent Austin, Dallas, Denton. I have girls some fwb some just friends that I see once a month or so! If I can do it in a small geographical scale there is no reason that if you frequent these places often you can't setup a similar situation. The key for me was staying at on there radar every few weeks, and treating the relationship like it is... One where I can only see them once a month sometimes less. Then I have a girl I frequently see here local when I'm going to school ect!

EddMak · 2016-03-28T12:11:20+00:00

Bro l banet l lebneniyye 3akrate. Hayde mnel ekhir :p

FrightenedInmate3 · 2016-03-28T01:09:26+00:00

Me again.

Don't try to "set-up" anything. Firstly, it sounds like you're trying to live out a rap video fantasy of pimping all over the world. Not really realistic. Secondly, when you start planning this stuff out, it loses its spontaneity and sense of fun, which is what "hooking-up" is all about.

From your last post, I would focus on just making some steady contacts in those places that you can call on to go out for drinks or dinner (and not just women, men too). Learn how to socialize in a way that reflects your jetsetting personality. You're not tied down to one place, so live it up a little. Be that guy people want to see when you touch down in whatever city you're in. Only then can you shift focus to getting some fuck-buddies. Those are major cities, and Lebanon is a fucking hotbed of repressed women looking to explore their sexuality (I'm middle eastern and am well aware of the reputation), so finding hook-ups should be easy.

But it shouldn't be the objective, just the incidental outcome of a fun night out. Learn to approach things in this way and you'll enjoy yourself way more.

Title	Having/setting up "friends with benefits" in various locations?
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Date	March 28, 2016 12:40 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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