So about 40 minutes ago i was chatting up HB8 that joined my social circle recently, plus i know her from high school, and she used to date one of my friends i no longer hang with. Two days ago we met at a club during our mutual friends engagement party, during said time i was completely in state and beast mode all over the club, at one point i started dancing with her, and we chatted for a bit, then i bailed to find more girls, anyway.

So i add her on facebook, and she msgs me first saying Hi!! and im like hi!, and then tell her to not get over excited about us dancing and what not, blah blah blah. So at one point shes like, "you got that hookah tobacco i gave you" (this was like 5 months ago), and im like yea! wanna come over and smoke it!? (total boss statement), and shes like "no i dont like that flavor, you got something else?" and i tell her yea, but i only have another one and its kinda bad, so she says how she can mix it and whatever. So anyway a little into the conversation and she is just like ok well can i get a rain check after wednesday cus i gotta study? and im like aight lets do thursday at 9.

So the reason im talking about this is because a lot of people (me included) are sometimes frustrated about setting up an actual meet up's... so i just wanted to point out that there are other ways you can set up dates, and even better you can have the HBs set it up themselves! You have to be direct on your motivation tho, and make her excited about doing said activity tho, the way i didnt hesitate to say "yea! you wanna smoke it?", that was basically the game changer in my opinion.