“How can I cure approah anxiety”

Look, I wanted to ask this question a thousand times. I’ve looked up the answer a thousand times. Hell I’ve looked it up so much I have a mental image of the content of the first 3 pages of the google search: how to overcome approach anxiety.

You and and lots of others, and also the old me, look up this question because you have failed to take action: approaching the girl you were attracted to.

Nothing happened and that is fine, because you wanted it. But if you keep failing to get in action nothing might happen.

This is all on you. A thousand words can’t change anything about the action you have to take. Nobody can take that responsibility for you.

You can keep reading material, but the reading won’t apply to specific situations.

“Did I ever tell you what the definition of insanity is?.... doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results”.

Most guys don’t realise 3 major advantages. The first is that there are unlimited people. The second is that you have unlimited ammo. The third is that none cares.

What do you normally do in videogames? shoot the ammo around the map anyway you like it.

Unlimited ammo.. unlimited approaches.

In years your aim will improve.

But the main opponent here is your ego: detach yourself from it. If you gain your validation from people who you barely know, you’re set up for failure