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[–]momogirl200 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well you might have jumped the gun a tad. Woman like to feel safe and comfortable right? So make yourself someone she sees and this is the perfect time! Be outside gardening or walking or running whatever. Don’t stalk her but if she’s out walking her dog, a casual “good morning, lovely weather” sort of small talk thing. Then go. Be gone. A quick hey, see face, and gone. Every day. She will become familiar with you and eventually if she’s interested, she will be more talkative on the daily. We need to be comfortable, that’s why no one likes sober one night stands.
This is also why all the hallmark movies portray a lowly farm boy and a big city lady falling love. You just gotta be there, you got another 6 weeks to test it out? What’s the harm?
[–]Lakenvelderin 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's creepy. You creeped her out.
People don't like being approached (let alone asked out! pump the brakes, man!) out of the blue, especially women by men they don't know. Next time, give it more time to see if she:
Things tend to work out better when you know you have something in common, like with other people in a club/social group/work circle.
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