Not talking about sexting or sending nudes or stuff you would instantly break up, but let's say for example texting with some dude. Not in a professional way but for fun. Calling her out on it makes you look like a faggot because you went through her phone.. but you know, trust but verify. In my case she texted a guy who she had a crush on a few years ago. As far as I know it was her first kiss. They also made a joke on how his current gf would not like me and how I would not like him because they get along so well. I feel disrespected but I think breaking up because of this would be overreacting. Awalt, arent they?