There wasn't much about dating and plates and being seen in public so I thought I would ask.

Sorry if this is long winded but... Background is that I am new to red pill but I wasn't so blue pilled that it was a difficult transition. I was spinning plates before "unplugging." I am reading every day and learning and internalizing and putting things to use. One thing that I don't see discussed on TRP is "dating" and spending time with girls that you enjoy. Doesn't seem to be a lot of LTR topics which is understandable. I know that there seem to be a lot of hard and fast rules, but as I apply some of these concepts to real people, a lot of things don't always jive well with certain personalities. For the record I am really into Asian women and I think a lot of this is geared towards western culture/women whereas Chinese men are typically taught to be extreme beta and the Chinese girls are accustomed to it.

Now I used the word plates, but maybe FWB is a better term for my instance. I have Jane and Emily, struggling to rate them but let's call Jane a 7.5-8.5 and Emily an 8-9 (I don't know what my 9 or 10 looks like haha). I have known them a short time and enjoy both their company and would like to hang out with them more. Was out on a sort of date with Emily last night and I think Jane saw us. I am not afraid to lose Jane as a friend/plate, doesn't bother me in the slightest really (though my abundance then drops down to 1 lol). Jane gives me a lot more flack for my red pill ways such as not talking to her as much as I used to, not caring about her feelings, etc etc. I know texting is only for making a plan, but when they're not just a plate, you do enjoy chatting with people.

Just looking for other people's experience and insight on how to handle it. I've seen some take the honest/positive approach if it comes to a "her or me" scenario. Try to keep the plate spinning, let it break if it breaks. Feels like as I type this all out, I just answered my own question hahaha. Maybe that's all I needed, a little writing to reaffirm the principles. Maintain frame, and do whatever the hell I want.