Guys Who have Slept around in College, How'd You Do It?

circusmeerkat · 2016-09-12T17:31:42+00:00

I'm going to share my experience as a college student. I have since dropped out to pursue other ventures, but that is a story for another time. So, when I entered college for the first time, I knew absolutely no one. This was the best thing for me since I had the opportunity to reinvent myself. It was imperative for me to make friends with those who I felt would be great to party with; and that is what I did. Pretty soon, I was going to parties left and right. It was great for many reasons, but the main benefit was social value / social proof. I would talk to girls at the parties, then I would see them during the week. Once I established myself as someone who was fun to be around, getting girls was as easy as brushing your teeth in the morning. Let me be clear, I am, by nature, an introvert - being an only child does that; but in such a social environment such as college, I made the effort to step out of my shell occasionally. Now, let's fast forward a bit. I transferred out of that school and moved closer to home. I was now commuting to class, and once again, knew pretty much no one. I no longer had the luxury of attending those typical university parties. I needed to adjust my game plan for meeting girls. I made the extra effort to make conversation before class started. Personally, I feel it's better to meet girls when the semester begins, then you can sit with them and make it a regular thing. I made sure to develop a good connection with whoever I felt like moving things forward with. Anyway, I feel like I'm rambling on. Have fun in college man, don't be afraid to step out of your comfort and try new things. See that cute girl in your hallway? Just say you're going to grab a bite to eat and invite her. You're only going to get to live the college experience once, so don't sweat the little things.

2016-09-12T17:44:16+00:00

STOP OVERTHINKING IT!!!! You remind me of me 2 years ago, and I hate it.

The first step of being good with girls is being good with people. Join a club, organization, fraternity, or any group. This shows girls you are active and have a social life. Also, this will introduce you to more girls and make amazing new friends. in short, build or find a social circle in which you can thrive.

Be direct with them. "lets hangout" turns to "lets go on a date". This is more honest and will break you out of your shell.

Lastly, most girls are looking for a fun time. I may have, allegedly, broken into different buildings around campus with a girl. Give them a reason to wan't to hang out.

Also, don't stress about being a virgin. It's only a problem if you let it be a problem.

Title	Guys Who have Slept around in College, How'd You Do It?
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Date	September 12, 2016 4:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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