Hi Reddit,

I am a 21 year old Male in really great shape that has been reexamining what me and my friends call "the social dynamics of female marketing value." I get laid here and there although have been coming to a better understanding of what most older Men have that I am beginning to appreciate. I'm just attempting to convey it to my age group here because its so easy to incorrectly translate what looks like inability to keep up with "the game" due to a frailer body (although that is also a valid point) to the full acceptance of rightfully not giving a shit.

Firstly some background, I live in the US dealing with women under thirtyish meaning that I deal with the tendency to work on the contradictory foundation of a chick wanting to feel equal yet somehow entitled to what is from the males position a copious amount of bullshit. But have also been fortunate to spend time in South Korea and France where I learned that for the most part women are women. Every one of my ex's were pretty stunning because I will admit a shallow prerequisite for me that is that the girl needs to be at least an 7/10 for me to acknowledge her existence. (Fair enough right?)

In a nutshell what I've been getting at is what my Male gut has been always telling me but I've been to much of a pussy to admit to, that women are never worth the effort of putting oneself in a sacrificial position. And that the only way a man can really enjoy the company of his woman is when he doesn't have to maintain/work a cool douche bag feeling image of himself to keep selling onto the girl who is deluded in her complimented physique. Don't get me wrong they look good but the fact that work ethic and the supporting of resources is the Male's compensation for a born sexual orifice is in no way shape or form (no pun intended) a good trade. What the Man pays off is exceedingly more valuable than what she trades in turn and I've never understood why men have been so pussy whipped in just saying what they really feel.

I use to watch rappers or rock bands with a feeling of "what an asshole putting women in music videos like that- oh you must think your cool." But now I think there just coming out with what any guy who speaks to women daily enough feels and that they inevitably are cool, that the majority of women are not bigger than their fuckability.

Also I'm not a guy who was fucked over or anything dramatic, like every guy I've dealt with bad relationships but the conclusions were always for the better. Basically the question, why am I missing her in the first place was never worthily answered in par to my consistent hard work and loyal friendships. Cause y'know what, when it comes to being commited I really did try, and I don't think girls are ready for wisdom or commitment at this age although they may say so. So I'm just saying what I've learned from speaking with older Men in conjunction to the mistakes that have taught me what I don't want.

I don't want to change women because I don't think they can, just stating the obvious when looked at without the controlled desire for pussy; that finances, education, the internet, friendship, whatever the hell she wants you to trade up as a test for her is usually more cherish able than what she basically demands and shouldn't be bothered with. But what does bother me and can/will change are the Men who defend against this unfair fucked up illusion that isn't helping Men. In other words the only men who have told me that I've been scarred so much or that I'm not looking for the right girl are the men who haven't spoken to enough women to see that I'm right. This applies to some of my friends who now agree with me.

And by not giving a shit to please the female mind one can get back to enjoying the finer things that are mislead by the pursuit of vagina, which is indeed a pleasure but should be accepted that women use it as a bargaining chip. And fuck bothering with those kin of hoes, their usually not even that good anyways. Anywho, just speaking my recent thoughts because I've been talking with this girl who I might be becoming fond of for her open mind and honest approach in getting what she wants out of a Man.

Cheers Reddit.