I'm on a phone so excuse any errors I may write.

So everytime I'm at a show some random girls always seem to approach me. maybe it's luck or something but for some reason I have success at shows.

So we get flirty and start dancing, or just dancing in close proximity to me . It typically leads to them danicing on me while facing towards the stage while I'm behind them, and we're not really grinding just dancing close-ish. I automatically get the feeling they are into me but I never seem to know what to do. I feel kinda creepy if I started touching them from behind. But my first thought is put my hand on their hip and pull them closer into me.

this has happened to me a bunch of times and Im always pissed at myself for not physically escalating. what are your thoughts? And are there any other ways to escalate from that position?

thanks.