Polishing your social image .

Marideaux · 2014-08-06T11:30:16+00:00

Stop being such a bitch and just live your life.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2014-08-06T13:19:02+00:00

i fucking hate it when i'm talking to someone and they're giving half-assed answers while they try to suck someone else's dick and they think you're some beta , bitch-tier guy who they'll just answer politely and ignore .

Deal with it. Some people aren't going to like you.
People view you as beta because that's how you view yourself. You unconsciously train people to act a certain way around you.

Yes, you are a beta. All of the anger in your post is a reflection if your beta-ness. People don't view you as beta because they're assholes. Yeah, some people are dicks, and yeah, people shouldn't be judgmental. But you know what? It's also your responsibility to do something about your beta-ness. It sounds like you just don't want to admit that at this current moment, you're not the alpha male that you think you are.

I'm sorry if this offends you. It really isn't my intention. But I thought you could use the wake-up call.

any tips on having a better social image ?

Yes, be a happier person and stop hating on other people. Build social circles. Do cold approach. Improve your career. Hang out with your friends. Learn an instrument. Take dancing lessons. Build a business. Travel and see new things. Do the things that you want to do. In other words, give value in social situations.

Right now, I get the impression that you're trying to leech the value out of people in order to feel better about yourself. It's a recipe for disaster, depression, and loneliness.

Like dude...

Anyhow , all raging aside , i am seeing these punks on facebook having this army of sluts , who are feeding him value and validation through messages and posts and what not.

You say "all raging aside" and continue to rage even more.

Look, if you suck as a man, you don't deserve women. (You can argue that nobody "deserves" women, but for the sake of my argument, let's say that confident, value-giving men "deserve" women)

You want to see girls wanting to talk to you? Why? Because you want the validation for your ego? You just want to use them just as wet hole for your dick? Or because you want to legitimately create a connection with a women and offer her love (whether just as a friend, FWB, or relationship), good sex, and a great experience?

As a noobie, it's kind of okay to start off with validation-seeking behaviors because hey, that's how most people are. And at least it gets the ball rolling. But if you really, really want success with women, you're going to have to ditch the negative attitude over time. If you're viewing women merely as fuck-dolls who validate your ego, then you don't deserve success with women.

Title	Polishing your social image .
Author	cmonjohnny
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	August 6, 2014 5:10 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2cre41/polishing_your_social_image/
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