How do I know if a woman finds me attractive?

UpperRedSide · 2018-09-15T21:18:44+00:00

Indicators of Interest:

Smiling often or whenever she looks at you.

Dancing, singing, humming, or mumbling during silences when you two are alone together.

Greeting you first and with enthusiasm.

Staring at you with a detached sort of look, then looking away once you notice.

Acting cold, awkward, and/or odd when near you. (She's nervous!)

Starting up the conversation herself during silences. Finding excuses to talk to you when there is no clear reason or subject of discourse.

Walking up closer to you than she needs to show you something, give you something, or tell you something.

Showing signs of confusion, worry, or discomfort when you don't interact with her.

Accepting, inviting, initiating touch.

Asking your advice, opinion, or help often.

Holding eye contact for as long as you do.

Subconsciously giving you bedroom eyes.

Laughing often.

Laughingly calling you mean, rude, or grumpy when you neg.

Standing less than two feet away from you while you talk without backing away.

Smiling, looking up, and making eye contact, all while evidently in your personal space. This means she feels small and safe and feminine and likely turned on when near you.

Jorge318 · 2018-09-15T16:44:32+00:00

Don’t worry about others, just worry about looking good and feeling awesome and the ladies will come.

codewizbambam · 2018-09-15T17:28:16+00:00

Read "Undercover Sex Signals" by Leil Lowndes

yorkshireaus · 2018-09-16T01:09:13+00:00

My approach is don't wait for IOI's. If you find someone cute or just feel that the person is interesting, go approach her. Than as you are talking you can look for IOI's.

Jorge318 · 2018-09-15T16:50:06+00:00

There are a lot of factors that can determine if a girl wants to be hit on or not. The simplest way I can put it is this: if you want that girl, then go for the kill. Takes a lot but if you’re hungry then you gotta get into hunting mode

2018-09-16T00:17:15+00:00

If you're having troubles telling, the best thing to do is to just approach, or get close. If you can talk to her, interested girls will usually touch you, if not you can touch her upper arm non chalantly while talking, see if she responds.

Title	How do I know if a woman finds me attractive?
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Date	September 15, 2018 4:39 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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