6 years ago I met my first OneItIs. It was a failure, but I started reading, and loosely trying seduction (6 years now). I never got friendzoned, And I think my results are quite good. I've been in 3 year realtionship, and had fun with many girls. I had a girl on the hook, and another girl that would brake up with me in the middle of the 2 week hitchike trip - the day she broke up with me I danced with beautiful black and white girls, I was not affected at all. I was so not affected, that 3 days later she asked to come back.

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I mostly dont care about girls and it creates calm and intuitive moves. And I thought - Hey! I am prepared to meet OneItIs, I know what to do if I like a girl.

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Then, three months ago I met my present OneItIs. From the first day I knew she has things that I'm looking for in a girl. (one in six years o.0). So I broke up with my previous girlfriend the day we had first date to 'start clean' and it felt good. But I overthink every action with OneItIs. I wait for her texts, think about her all the time. We made out, and been on few dates, but I'm fucking everything up. The story is not over yet, but I already see its going to an end, she's not responding to my moves the way other girls do. I care too much and dont see what are the good moves.

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I feel unprepared, and weak. Like a beginner who's scared, and who doesn't know if girl likes him or not. First time in years. How may I prepare myself for next OneItIs?

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cause I dont want to settle with anyone, but the best.