Every time I walk around campus and see beautiful girls I feel the need to approach them but for some reason I always back off.I often tell myself the time is not right I don’t have the right outfit or haircut? I know this shouldn’t matter but it often hinders My ability to feel confident?I see these excuses as real but I feel that my real fear involves not being able to make a connection,making her laugh or feel comfortable in the conversation.For some reason I have a tough time vining with a girl it is very awkward.

What mindset should I have in order to overcome all these fears?How do I vibe with a girl? What challenges would you recommend for me to get out of my comfort zone?