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Is this an IOI?

porkoiddio · 2018-11-11T19:37:28+00:00

So, this woman and I are talking about something (can't remember what but it doesn't matter) and I make intensive eye contact with her. While she...

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November 11, 2018

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Title	Is this an IOI?
Author	porkoiddio
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	November 11, 2018 7:37 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9w6pku/is_this_an_ioi/
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[–]Gazela1997 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

Yes

Best way to I learned to understand IOS is this:

Males: We will indicate our interest with methods that will have the highest chance of success, ex cold approach, complimenting, asking her out on a date etc.

Females: Most females will indicate interest by using methods with the lowest possible probability of rejection, AKA IOS, playing with hair, location, eye contact...etc.

Common IOIs:

-Direct eye contact

-playing with hair or fixing her hair, girls make sure that they look their best for you.

-triangle or line look, looks directly into your eyes, then quickly at your lips, repeat.

- Smiling, if a girl smiles, see if she makes creases near the outside of her eyes (as in the < of the eye closes to the ear on both sides) , this indicated a genuine smile, not just being nice.

-Touching, girls with interest will find a way to touch you. Ex, you tease her and she playfully punches/hits you on your shoulder.

-Location, girls with interest will find a way to be close to you, but won't make a move on you.

Once you know what to look for, it becomes instinct.

Best of luck

[–]porkoiddio 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]Gazela1997 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Now remember that with females, its like fishing less is more once you got the hook in.

As in, ask her out, then only communicate with her to set up plans (this applies to over text, don't just straight up ignore her in person). DO NOT text her about random shit, this will make her lose attraction. Best way to put it is, ALWAYS have intent with whatever you're doing. Lets say you're studying in the library, and she comes up to you to talk. Chat with her for a min then politely tell her that you need to get your work done and that you'll talk to her later. Dont stop doing what youre actually supposed to be doing just because she's there. Be nice but not overly nice.Have boundaries and standards.

This will make her want you 100000X. I know this because I made these mistakes and I know what not making them does to a girl.

Best

[–]porkoiddio 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Gazela1997 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes

Men are logical, women are emotional. For us, eye contact is a medium of manners and politeness. For women, however, its a emotional spike. Holding strong eye contact will play on her emotions and make her more into you.

A lot of good looking guys miss out on girls because they think that women are logical. Wrong, they're super emotional. Its like their compass.

Have you ever noticed a good looking guy get rejected by a girl, or she simply loses interest, what does she usually say? If you ask her why, 9/10 the answer would be "I didn't feel like it".

93% of human communication is non-verbal, this means everything you do conveys a singnal to the girls brain. I as a male, can't phantom this, but this is how girls operate. Which means, do: stand up straight, chest out, hold eye contact, smile, be confident with yourself(this is key). Now its uncomfortable to talk to a girl you like I know, but you have to fake it till you make it, Give the girl both positive (compliments) and negative (teases) emotions. Make her feel it, do these and she will literally fall into your arms.

btw if you have blue eyes, GG clitoris WP

[–]porkoiddio 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link