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| 0 | If you ever need a confidence boost...Nice mindset, so you rather focus on the negative rather than the positive? How's that working out for you? | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 06:48 PM |
| 5 | If you ever need a confidence boost...that wasn't really the point I was getting at. And facts do change confidenece , because if you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. | /r/seduction | 02/02/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Had the MOST magical interaction with the most beautiful girl I've ever seenThats where a lot of guys struggle with. Once you appreciate something, you have it. When you want it, it means that you don't have it. Just like your interaction with that girl. You had maximum intent in the interaction, but you had no attachment. You weren't needy at all and she felt that (for sure you did great external game but that wasn't the factor, cuz external game come from great internal game). She felt your appreciation for life, and therefore you weren't seeking anything from her, ra… | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Had the MOST magical interaction with the most beautiful girl I've ever seenKey point of this story, that made it all happen : "I wanted to take a moment to go appreciate that so I walked out of the crowd and was looking over the city skyline just wondering how beautiful life is" | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 03:56 PM |
| 10 | Didn't ask her out after showing some interest, now she acts cold, what do"5 inches taller lmao so keep that in mind"- you know who hooks up the hottest girls, club promoters. Do you know how they usually look like? Short weird looking dudes. You know why? Because they have this little bubble around them and they believe that they are the shit. Not saying height doesn't matter right off the bat talking to females, but in female and male relationship, woman provides the looks, man provides the behaviour. If you can dominate the behaviour, looks become the minimal chara… | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Let's get YOU a wingman!I GO TO UW!!! | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:37 AM |
| 5 | Did I just reverse seduce this girl? [confused] [college]Bro, this is the one thing that helped me in every area of my life, "Less fucks you give, the more fucks you get" | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Approached someone and it gave me confidence.My guyyyy. Don't think that you failed , you've are actually winning big. What happened was that you approached her, and thought your sub-communication and verbal, she was attracted. You were able to appeal and play to her emotional side and not the logical side, thats why she gave you her number. Then she said she had a bf because her logical side kicked in later in the day. You can see the same thing happening in the club when a girl has a bf when you have strong game. Have you ever talked to … | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Lessons Learned From 17 ApproachesUniversity of Standford did a study that reflects "Oddly enough the harshest rejection came from the ugliest one". Basically students went out in the public and gave people money for free with no string attached. "Hi, would you like 10$ dollars for free, no string attached"? "Hi, would you like 100$ dollars for free, no string attached"? "Hi, would you like 1000$ dollars for free, no string attached"? Most people took the 10 dollars (idk the stats) 50% of people took the 100$ Only 10 % of pe… | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | "Fuck it" and today I passed my own shit test :)Not disagreeing, Im just saying i didn't perceive the situation like you, I didn't feel attractive at all in those clothes. Now I know after going through it, there was no need for that, I didn't know that on the way home. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 04:42 PM |
| 2 | "Fuck it" and today I passed my own shit test :)I dont think you understand the point of my post. It wasn't that I was looking for IOI's of any sort, I wasn't there with a goal in mind to pick up chicks. I just wanted to get my foods and get out. The point is that I felt shitty about myself because of how I looked in public, and how I, in my head made it worse than it actually was.. I'm kind of a perfectionist, I dont know if you understand what that feels like but doing anything while looking below-par from your own viewpoint is horrifying… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 04:31 PM |
| 6 | "Fuck it" and today I passed my own shit test :)She must have done it when I looked down on my phone, I did for at least 5-10 seconds. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 06:43 AM |
| 34 | "Fuck it" and today I passed my own shit test :)Will do haha | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 04:18 AM |
| – | "Fuck it" and today I passed my own shit test :)Who and what | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that the second you get 'interested' in someone, you constantly fuck up?I heard that quote and it stuck with me It means that thought homeless man shouldn't be able to do a lot, as his social status is really low. If he has confidence, he becomes one of the most dominating people on the planet because he sees himself as the shit, and so does the world (If he dresses appropriately, you know what I mean). | /r/seduction | 31/01/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the second you get 'interested' in someone, you constantly fuck up?Let me explain in depth 1# is basically something that I use as a tool for myself not too assign too much value for a girl. I'm by no means an expert in controlling my desires and emotions, so I use it as a method to trick my own brain. I see my brain as my worst enemy because it will stop me from doing thing if those stimuli produce stress, and so through trial and error, I have found out some things that make situations less anxious by changing how I perceive them. The part about "girls sitt… | /r/seduction | 31/01/19 03:51 PM |
| 21 | Why is it that the second you get 'interested' in someone, you constantly fuck up?I was like that too, however I overcame it. This is way of thinking, the problems can be divided into 2 parts. #1: Fabrircated Pedestal You're putting that individual on a pedestal which you actually fabricated in your head. Let's say your attracted to 1 girl out of 5, therefore, you see her as scarce, and what we preice as scarce, has much bigger value. You see that girl as a 10, so now you're putting so much pressure on yourself trying not to fuck it up that you end up overthinking it, and fuc… | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Advanced Guy in a with a flat tireThank man! Will do! | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Advanced Guy in a with a flat tireThanks man I appreciate that! I just feel like I'm in a tailspin of not being good enough and idk how to get out of it | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Should an average looking guy act like he's physically attractive when approaching girls?Also, if you're average looking, girls will sometime shit test you by saying things that are meant to throw you off such as "You're so short" or "You look like a douche". When they say that, OWN IT! For example if a girl says to you "You look like a douche", reply to her with "Yeah aha, I'm a weird looking douche ass mf". Exaggerate their unpleasant comments, for me it works quite well. | /r/seduction | 23/11/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Delicate situation....need advice She's mentally stable yet she took 2 weeks out of work, because of mental issues. This breakup hit her like a truck and she really loved the guy. I'm not going to be the guy who asks the girl out when she even herself doesn't know where she stands atm. Its too risky. | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 06:45 AM |
| 1 | What exactly do I do? 😅In the pickup community, open her basically means to engage in conversation. Its just Game jargon, kind of like in weightlifting, there are sets. Basically, say hi, then positive/negative emotions, then close | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Taking actionNo magic formula, no magic shortcut Literally just fucking do it | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 05:17 AM |
| 1 | I am great at getting one nighters,but I hardly ever get datesYou're out of school so put on your big boy shoes and go cold approach women. I was the same as you, the thought of approaching a random woman was terrifying af, but I did it anyway. The best part about that is after you do it, you won't give a single fuck how she responded because you'll feel alive as hell, its like a drug. Trust me man, just do it, the moment you say hi you've already won. Then it gets easier and easier. “Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway.” | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Talking to this girl I met onlineDon't text her about random shit, ask her to meet. the end | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 05:00 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop being socially awkward"What you resist, persists" Don't be comfortable, do the things that make you uncomfortable and soon they'll become your second nature | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 04:52 AM |
| 8 | High school helpFirst, get a tutor in english Second, if she does like you, the reason why she doesn't look you in the eye is because she's nervous, this would also explain why she keeps looking back at you. You're seventeen, game at your age is as simple as it gets. Grow a pair, go and talk to her, she's probably going to be nervous. Be nice and genuine, YOU set the vibe, not her. Don't just say hi and stand there randomly, just have a normal conversation and then ask her to hangout sometime. | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 04:38 AM |
| 8 | How can I stop seeking validation from woman?Change your value systems. The reason why youre putting the girl on pedestal is because you see her as an essential part of your life, I know that because this is where I fucked up a lot too. Women are an addition/bonus to your life. You're just as happy with her as you are without her. This not only makes you focus on yourself, figure out what you like and don't like, but once you get going my friend, you're gonna be swimming in pussy. This does a lot of things: -makes you less needy, more attr… | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 04:32 AM |
| 13 | Getting a Girl's Number at the Gym1.Wait until she's finished her set Go up to her Open her Get the number GG Don't go to her with just to introduce yourself, have intent. That pretty fcking weird if a random guy just goes an introduces himself and then leaves, thats what a friend does, not a guy she would want to fuck. I would do it like this: You: "Hey, sorry for interrupting your workout, but I thought you were really cute and I would of hated myself for the next 10 minutes if I didn't talk to you. (Compliment and disqualif… | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | What exactly do I do? 😅Open her, escalate her emotions and then shoot your shot. I would avoid the word "date". Many of my female friends say that when the guy says the word "date", it comes off really strong. However I don't know how well you know this girl or how close you are, if you're not close, I would recommend saying "lets hangout sometime" or something among those lines. | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Is this an IOI?Yes Men are logical, women are emotional. For us, eye contact is a medium of manners and politeness. For women, however, its a emotional spike. Holding strong eye contact will play on her emotions and make her more into you. A lot of good looking guys miss out on girls because they think that women are logical. Wrong, they're super emotional. Its like their compass. Have you ever noticed a good looking guy get rejected by a girl, or she simply loses interest, what does she usually say? If you as… | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Long time lurker here. Hopefully going on my first date todayLess fucks you give , more fucks you get :) Enjoy it without outcome Exchange you' re expectations for appreciation and she's gonna love you | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Is this an IOI?Now remember that with females, its like fishing less is more once you got the hook in. As in, ask her out, then only communicate with her to set up plans (this applies to over text, don't just straight up ignore her in person). DO NOT text her about random shit, this will make her lose attraction. Best way to put it is, ALWAYS have intent with whatever you're doing. Lets say you're studying in the library, and she comes up to you to talk. Chat with her for a min then politely tell her that yo… | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Is this an IOI?Yes Best way to I learned to understand IOS is this: Males: We will indicate our interest with methods that will have the highest chance of success, ex cold approach, complimenting, asking her out on a date etc. Females: Most females will indicate interest by using methods with the lowest possible probability of rejection, AKA IOS, playing with hair, location, eye contact...etc. Common IOIs: -Direct eye contact -playing with hair or fixing her hair, girls make sure that they look their best … | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | HOW TO GET AN ATTRACTIVE WOMAN’S ATTENTION WITHOUT TRYING“I know my value and I will communicate it to every woman I meet. The women who are attracted to me because of my value are the women I will choose from, and those who are not attracted to my value can get on with it.” Could you please explain in depth? How does one communicate? I understand the whole post but I don't understand how one can communicate specific values to other females during interaction. Is it the way one talks? Banters? Flirts? Are there specific things one should mention dur… | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Post-Breakup Game SOSThanks man, I appreciate it a lot ! I thought I was being a little bitch or something lol. | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What are the indicators that I should walk away after a successful approach?It does but it doesn't at the same time, attraction has an expression date. Even on a larger scale, when guy and girl gets comfortable, she gets too comfortable and he gets in the friend zone. Comfort zone is where attraction gets lost. The reason she liked you was because you had sexual tension, remember what the word "tension" implies: "a strained state or condition resulting from forces acting in opposition to each other" Tension and comfort zone are literally the opposites. The only time a g… | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 05:42 PM |
| 3 | What are the indicators that I should walk away after a successful approach?I like to think of it as boiling a poached egg. If you wanna have a real good poached egg, you gotta time it right, if not, it overcooks. The best indicator hands down of when its time to let go is at that sweet spot where the egg whites are cooked but the yolk is still liquid, aka, peak of sexual tension, moments after you made out. (This is in a bar scenario) If you left right after you made out, this is what would of happened: You would of left her on a high note, good emotions. She would b… | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 03:10 PM |
| -5 | UPDATE***I GOT SUSPENDED FROM WORK, IT WAS WORTH IT"Now you're just assuming things, such as girls rarely verbalize that they have a crush, well she did so I guess that puts her in that rare category top was on, panties were off, I said butt naked, not completely naked. Also I created a new filing system that saved lots of time with software for that job so he didn't want to lay me off. Managers are human beings too, sometimes you fuck up and they understand. And what kind of lawsuit? who's gonna sue who? And the comments I saw on my last post su… | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 06:20 AM |
| -1 | Turned a work conversation into an "auction"....UPDATE https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8lzfbk/updatei_got_suspended_from_work_it_was_worth_it/ | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Turned a work conversation into an "auction"....Solid 8.5 or 9 | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Turned a work conversation into an "auction"....its funny because his coat is exactly like a rotwieller | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 07:16 PM |
| 46 | Turned a work conversation into an "auction"....SLICK | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 05:30 PM |
| 60 | Turned a work conversation into an "auction"....SO atm I am hiding at work, because I did not reply to any of them yet, I dont know what Im gonna do yet , and I dont want to run into them. Also I went to work in a conference room where no body goes because my buddy at work texted me that "Alex and Amy walked by your cubicle like 6 time today, wtf, and asked where you were". Im trying to somehow hangout with both of them but I dont know how without having one of them lose interest. Honestly I feel like Im planning the invasion of Normandy | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 05:12 PM |
| 7 | Turned a work conversation into an "auction"....2000$ Going once, going twice.... Haha you know what I meant though!! | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 05:08 PM |
| 10 | Turned a work conversation into an "auction"....No it did not make them switch modes, I simply had a conversation with a girl about dogs, then another girl joined it, and it turned out that they both wanted to dog sit. Girls in nature are very slick, so instead of asking the guy out straight , they will most likely give you hints that they like you, in this case, the dog sitting, hoping that you'll pick up on it and ask them. So I essentially turned a normal conversation into an opportunity for them to show their level of interest and raise i… | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 04:16 PM |
| 36 | Turned a work conversation into an "auction"....Im just glad that I caught myself before I said anything haha | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 03:28 PM |
| 55 | Turned a work conversation into an "auction"....TEXT AND I QUOTE "Heyy its Amy, I just wanted to ask you if you would like to hangout sometime, and Rocky doesnt have to come ;)" You tell me man Alex's text was basically same concept | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 03:26 PM |
| 0 | I think Im ok with being friendzoned?bro if you can accept rejection with a smile, you're going a LOOOONGGG way, not just in pickup, but in life. Failing and having the balls to try again is a rare trait, and once you have it, the world is your my friend ALSO use it as motivation, a lot of girls rejected me back in high school and first year of uni, then I hit the gym, every rep I did, I thought of the girls that were rejecting me and that made me push through pain, like everyday for 2 hours, counted my calories/macros, now into my… | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Trying tinder again. What do I say to this hottie?BUT I have met numerous girls that look innocent yet are freaky af, you can't really tell on tinder tbh | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Trying tinder again. What do I say to this hottie?show your tinder profile and pics, we gonna make you a tinder god | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Trying tinder again. What do I say to this hottie?I am usually very straightforward with girls, I get the # usually within 4-7 messages, sometimes 2-3 My go to line to works 7/10 times (for me at least) is: "Hey, I'm just gonna skip the (bs) chit chat and get to the point. Youre hella cute (emoji with heart eyes), whats your number?" Sometimes I use "bs chit chat", sometimes I dont, get a feel for the girl from her pics and then proceed accordingly, If you sense a girl is really "classy" in a sense, you wouldn't say that but if she's a "wild" o… | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | KEY TIP TO LAND A BOMBread my comment bruh | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 11:52 PM |
| 6 | KEY TIP TO LAND A BOMBThe point of my post is to say that the reason why I dont think that I treated her different was because I didn't know who she was!! Otherwise I would of probably. However now, going through this experience I really realize that all girls are to be treated the same. If I went to a bar and met someone famous, I feel like my initial conditioning would be to treat them different but now, remembering that night I would treat them like every other person. | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 02:56 PM |
| 24 | KEY TIP TO LAND A BOMBKill confirmed | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 02:51 PM |
| 9 | KEY TIP TO LAND A BOMBoh no I did not put her on the pedestal, my initial reaction was to after finding out but I I knew that I would fuck up, so I didn't and its working out pretty well | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 02:50 PM |
| 6 | How do guys "get with" a lot of girls in college?after a week of talking( girl is obviously interested if she is talking or at least replying to messages) guy: wanna hangout? girls: Yeah I'm down guy: wanna study or we can just chill at my place girl: up to you guy: okay come over then (or some shit like this) literally like this. Im in collage rn, 2 years and fucked 4 girls in 3 days this week and literally this is how it goes ****ask her to hangout after like 2 days, only text to make plans and be mysterious. Remember attraction has an expir… | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | In order to get girls you need confidence but because I don’t get girls I’m not confident. How do you get this confidence in the first place?fake it till u make it | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Seddit.. please help me, I don’t know what to do.To me it sounds like she wants your attention , cause you're not giving her any since she cheated on you. If she goes up to you and starts telling you about who's she's with or w/e, ignore it and don't tell her anything about you. You telling her about your dating life is literally like asking for validation is this situation. Makes women hella curious when they don't know whats happening in your life. As to treating her, treat her as an employee with no feelings at all. As how to act ( from my … | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Tinder!? Wtf!?Pickup line that I always use for tinder: "Heyy, gonna cut the bs chit chat, you're cute. Whats your number?" Works 8/10 times at least for me | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Oldest Saying for PickupI know that the saying is not meant specifically for game but it applies | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Pickup is PainfulPickup is not painful until your realize how hard life really is | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Is this a shit test?Update Me: Hey, didn't have my phone on me (cuz I replied after 2 days Lmao) Her: Oh (5 laughing emojis) Me: Laughing emoji Her: still love you then Me: Haha thanks Her: welcome summary: she's triggered lmaoo, that welcome was so cold I could feel her fuming over text | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Is this a shit test?Say no more, should I respond to the text saying "thx bro" or some shit like that. | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?Thing is I ain't really an orbiter because I never chased her after got friend zoned, which was like 2 months ago. :/ | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl is sending mixed signals, playing hard to get or not interestedThe less fucks you give the more fucks you get | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Fcking feelings man. Need adviceseeing | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Virgin and havnt left the house in 2 years because of my looks...advice to improve?just watch this for fucks sake https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7N-pQh8krs0 | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Going from cute to hot (mentality)I definitely agree with you on that, however a "life mission" should be larger than women, but how the hell do you get women if all your focus goes on your mission? A girl won't just come up to you, a guys has to do some of the chasing, but I feel like a guys such as Bryant doesn't chase, because all he does is focus on basketball. Im still new to this so Im not really gripping the concept. I heard that girls make a guy chase to see if he really likes them, but thats where I see the problem, bec… | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 10:06 PM |
| 5 | Does she think I’m repulsive?If you want to know how other perceive you (btw now everybody is not the same, some people are just fucked in the way they communicate or look on others) do this: Stand in a mirror Look yourself in the eyes and ask, "Am I happy with myself", BUT THE KEY IS TO BE DEAD HONEST WITH YOURSELF. If you answer yes, then you're good because when you are yourself, similar people come into your life. If the answer is no, then its simple, change the motherfucker until you are. THEN Look yourself in the eyes… | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 04:28 PM |
| 3 | What Sigmund Freud Can Teach You About Picking Up ChicksJust an fyi, Freud did enough cocaine in his life time to kill a large horse | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Went out with a girl a few times. Not sure how to proceed after some silence. Do I text her? If so, what do I say?Sometimes its better to drop the "man" act and swallow your pride. I was talking to this one girl and she went complete 180 on me for no reason, cold af. I asked her about it and she said its that she's been stressed, etc, made no sense to me at all but I went along with it. I learned that woman are much more effected by the external than the man and sometimes you just have to go along with it. I know it doesn't make sense but I can't explain it to you. Literally she might like you but her close… | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | How to get back to being "that guy"Yeah asking her out is the only way I guess. Additionally this might be interesting, so my birthday was not too long ago, everybody, including my close friends said "happy birthday", thats it, still nice tho. Although She somehow remembered, texted me right when I woke up and send a whole paragraph. Along the lines of " Happy birthday sweetheart!! Hope you have the most amazing day!!!Keep being the amazing person that you are! :) Never give up on your dreams because I know you're going far!! :) … | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 07:55 PM |
| 2 | How to get back to being "that guy"So I asked her out, she neither said yes or no apparently due to the fact that she was hella busy and didn't have time for a relationship. So I took that as a no. After that we were flirting in person and in text. She worked at the library and I saw her there pretty much everyday. She would always light up when she saw me, have a huge smile, play with her hair. all signs of interest. What I don't get is why would she be flirting and acting like my gf AFTER I ASKED HER OUT. | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How to get back to being "that guy"this situation is fucked up. So I asked her out, she neither said yes or no apparently due to the fact that she was hella busy and didn't have time for a relationship. So I took that as a no. AFTER THAT she acted like my gf but we were not seeing per say. So now she's back but idk how to act. | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 06:46 PM |
| 3 | How to get back to being "that guy"After reading the first sentence, I already knew this was gonna be good LOL Thanks man | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 06:57 AM |
| 1 | I have to be the worst or unluckiest with women, desperately need help.I found out that if you don't have luck with women, do the exact opposite of what you have been doing now. I know it feels contradictory but bro idk why, the shit works. If you want to talk to a female that lets say you haven't talked to in 2 days, I know your nature is telling you to text her but if you leave her, she'll come to you. It makes no sense to us guys but it works | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with being rejected over and over?My funny story is that I used to be like you, then I took the exact anger that you're feeling and turned it into action. I took it out all on boxing. What do you know several years later, turned me into a pre-olympic athlete. Now I don't even chase girls cause its too ez. All Im saying is that you can take that pain/frustration/failure and turn it into something great. How to deal with rejection: when you keep throwing shit against the wall, eventually something will stick | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Why are average women the easiest to get?Women below you seem easier because you seem higher status, and people want to be with individuals that are "higher social value" as perceived in society. Who would you want to hangout with? A middle school math teacher, or Connor McGregor? Yeah there ya go. | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Why are people like this?uh okay, I dont really get the logistics...so even my friends that I stopped talking to would be even more interested in me because I stopped? I have some friends that I never talk to and wouldn't care if they started again, so I don't see your point. | /r/seduction | 22/12/17 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Dont know how to text her.The guys who achieve the best results in any field have one thing in common and that is adaptation to the circumstances, you have to adapt to her texting style. So you said that she takes a long time to respond because she's busy... then construct your texts to fit that structure. Be straight, to the point, only text to set up dates and hangout etc. Every text you send should be with an intention in mind. Now with the teasing I literally just say whatever the hell I want to. Like I was at a bar,… | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Dont know how to text her.okay well you already got the home run so literally...you gotta keep in mind one thing while you text her... "The less fucks you give the more fucks you get" Tease her, make fun of her to a degree, don't be a straight prick, say no when you want to. Give her a compliment sometime, then roast her (thats what I do, I roast, build attraction, give compliment, girl is like aweee <3<3 "thats so sweet", and back to roasting (don't be straight up rude, just teasing)) Just say whatever you want to say t… | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis advice?Bro I feel you Its so fcking hard cause its like always in your mind at the beginning. The cure to oneitis is you gotta focus on other shit. Literally school, work, gym w/e. Its gonna be tough tho, because you won't be able to just stop focusing on her so you gotta literally make yourself focus on other stuff. Advice: if you suffer from oneitis, its probably due to the fact that your mission in life in not big enough. You should have that mindset of "If she's with me, great, if not, well Im sad … | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Do women mean what they wantthen why do all the dating sites, say that a knight in shining armour always finishes last? http://www.girlschase.com/content/white-knight-superman-syndrome-and-damsels-distress <---- | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Did I mess upOkay so, I've been talking to this girl, we have great chemistry. She practically acted like my gf, but she did not want a relationship due to life situation. Then she started to show less and less interest, I thought I did something and asked her about it, she said I didn't do anything and that she's been stressed and hasn't been talking a lot with anybody, but I smelled the bs so I cut contact (she actually lied) . Then she send booty pics and like cute messages my way a week later, and we sta… | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 09:13 PM |
| 1 | SOS EMERGENCY LADSwhat do you mean "pull in front of her" | /r/seduction | 14/12/17 12:08 AM |
| 1 | I don't know whats wrong with meI guess the reason on why I'm good at boxing is because if lets say a girl rejects me, that action gets turned into sadness and then into aggression as in "screw her" type of thing which lets me beat the hell out of my opponents. Lately its been hard as one of my really good friends (girl) stopped talking to me all the sudden and is making up excuses as to why. We were close and it got to me. Do individuals all the sudden stop talking even if you guys got really close and she told you her secret… | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Can I comeback?Okay fair enough so its a state not an act, well put. There is another girl that is interested in me and she wants to go on a date. Now I was interested in the original chick, Kate, but my friends tell me that if you go with the new one, Jade, and Kate finds out she will never get interest back cause shell think Im a player. The thing is Kate is a "good girl" type, she's never done anything and barely dated anyone but she's a solid 9. Ultimately Kate is a girl I never seen before and she has all… | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Can I comeback?Damm you know a lot lol. Okay Ill do that then. How do I act as If I don't need her? Lets say I go to they gym and she's there, do I just say hi and move along? To what degree do I cut the contact off? She was really investing till the past two weeks, and we became close tbh. | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Can I comeback?Damm okay that makes a lot of sense, doesn't sound too difficult. Currently I have a snap streak with her, however we just both send one bs snap a day for the sake to keep it going, should I end it on my end? or will it be petty? | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Can I comeback?so like cut all contact? Also i see her at the gym pretty much everyday, should I be the same or show less interest? | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Alright boys, comeback timeThe guy she freindzoned that chases her like a dog, she still constantly talks to him. I see myself and her as good friends so why would she cut me out? I was not chasing her at all, asking her on dates etc, literally I friendzoned her. | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | SOS BOIStrue, thank you. Its just my teenager brain that is getting to me lol | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 03:56 AM |
| 1 | SOS BOISwhat do I do with the snap chat streak? end it? or should I just send one blank snap a day. | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 03:45 AM |
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