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[β]triumph900 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
great plan go get her
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Spot on. Dont overthink it just go for it
[β]Gazela1997 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Open her, escalate her emotions and then shoot your shot. I would avoid the word "date". Many of my female friends say that when the guy says the word "date", it comes off really strong. However I don't know how well you know this girl or how close you are, if you're not close, I would recommend saying "lets hangout sometime" or something among those lines.
[β]TheStoicStudent98 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I donβt know her well
What do you mean by open her? Is that just to make her laugh?
[β]Gazela1997 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In the pickup community, open her basically means to engage in conversation. Its just Game jargon, kind of like in weightlifting, there are sets.
Basically, say hi, then positive/negative emotions, then close
[β]eyesopen1111 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a good plan to me. Does she know you like her? Does she like you? You may want to lay some groundwork to prepare her so that the date-ask is not so out of the blue.
"Meet up" is a casual phrase you can use to ask her when the time is right.
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