How to approach/break the ice with a girl in a club?

Zack_Fair_ · 2014-03-03T14:49:16+00:00

there is no one kind of way. in pickup there are what you could call different "schools" of seduction, probably based on who invented the style. So there are a few questions you need to ask yourself.

Most importantly; do you want to be direct ? Do you want to be more old school and use an indirect opener ?

Will you have to open a set ( group of people ) or did you happen to find a HB standing alone ? ( If you chose option 2 here, tell me where the fuck you live ;) ]

What kind of pickup are you most comfortable with ? the whole approach/comfort/attract/seduction thing ? Cocky-funny where you get the girl to chase you ? ( I think this is your style cause you'll be able to use your funny bone and think on your feet) The inner game-based completely unscripted freestyle stuff ? Then there's the whole NLP genre I certainly don't know fuck about.

Anyway, it's up to you to make up your mind but consider this a starter deck to fill up with "booster packs" of your preferred approach. ( " Gotta catch 'em all ? :D )

" hi, I thought we should meet. " , " You caught my eye when I came in / I find you attractive , let's talk" , " Hey there, let me hit on you for a sec ;) "
" OMG, you look just like my girlfriend !! " , " If I wasn't gay/so drunk I'd be all over you girl" , " Wow, you're in luck : I almost wore the exact same thing tonight ! " , "wanna hear a joke ? ",....
a neg . ( " If you would smile more you'd probably be one of the prettiest girls in this club " )
" hey guys, what's up / dude, do i know you / your girlfriend looks lonely/ pretty tonight/ etc etc etc...... ; I'm going to borrow her for a sec"
" why are you all alone ?"
any girl who touches you accidentaly : " heyoo, hands off ! normally I'd charge you for that / at least buy me a drink first / OWWWW ! " [ C&F]

Lt-SwagMcGee · 2014-03-03T22:28:23+00:00

"Hey excuse me do you know how much. Polar bear weighs?" "Umm no" "Enough to break ice. Hey I'm jigsawlll"

BAM. Ice broken. Plus there's a good chance you'll make her laugh, which is a good thing.

mistuhwang · 2014-03-03T14:21:58+00:00

Bro, lemma drop some words on you. Because when we walk into a club we want to take it over, its like a business and we are Donald trump, bill gates, and Steve Wynn of the fitness/club nightlife world and we just take over. I bust a front double bicep as soon as I get in, then after 2 redbull vodkas I rip my shirt off and usually just sport a tank because "I have a buzz" which I really don’t but its an excuse to take my shirt off and if anyone asks "i'm hot from the alcohol" then i hit up the bathroom and look for the handicap stall to get a good pump with the dip bars for the gimps, and we just do our thing you know, all ripped shredded bros just macking on pussy making everyone else feel like shit, were tanner, were more shredded, and we make it rain with the cash flow, goose bottles left and right bro.

Title	How to approach/break the ice with a girl in a club?
Author	JigsawIII
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	March 3, 2014 1:49 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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